Life is not about dating or marriage alone. Life is a complete package that entails the physical, spiritual, social, intellectual, emotional, and financial. It's your duty to nurture every phase of your life via Gods word. You can't leave any side of your life unkept and expect result. Give more attention to your self and to every happenings in your life. Don't be a spectator in your own life. Get involved in dictating what happens in your life. You can only do that when you walk in every word of God. You can only walk in Gods Word, when you study to know and understand it. Understanding is not enough until you practice what you understand. You are the only obstacle and helper you must acknowledge. Be careful of what you choose to believe and what inspires your believe. Nothing can complete you perfectly than your self in Christ. You are a total package...not the better half of God or any body. Value your self and pay kin attention to the healthy state of your physica...

Life and relationship is designed by God to be with a reason and for seasons. Love is not all about emotions....it is about decisions you make deliberately through your understanding gained in your calling. The Purpose for love or loving people is to support, inspire, and encourage them to embrace and execute their Gods given calling. Life is not about who you love....but it is about why you love who you love. WHY DO YOU REALLY LOVE THE WAY YOU DO? Relationship should be purposeful and that is to help your Gods given calling and also helping this persons Gods given calling to materialize. So, why do you want to love? Why is this person loving you? Is it feeding the need of your Gods given calling? Is it helping you or this person to understand and execute what God has called you or this person to do? This is Gods principles for loving...this is LOVE CULTURE. *Hope Expression*

Every aspect of your life needs love (relationship to survive but how can you know the right person? Relationship (love) is not just about dating; its exchange of communication for the fulfillment of Gods vision.  The need of relationship (love) is in the understanding of Gods expectation for your life. The expectation of God for your life is what we call God’s vision for your life. Before you see relationship (love) as a necessity, you must first find out God’s vision (expectation) for your life. This is the foundation for love (relationship). Having a wrong relationship is a display of your ignorance about God’s expectation (vision).  If you know God’s expectation (vision) for your life, you will know people to avoid. If you know God’s expectation (vision) for your life, you will know people to relate. People are not meant to establish relationship (love) without the absence of direction and vision. Every relationship is meant to meet a need in your God’s giv...

The need of love is progressive in nature. This has much to do with the revelation of God’s word. The need of love is in phases. The first need of love is “vision. You will never enjoy a true love experience if vision is absent. Vision is the strength and foundation of the need of love. What is vision? Vision is the mental picture of the spoken or written plan of God. Vision is the necessity of life. Vision is the spoken or written word of God. Vision will never be revealed until it is discovered. Vision can never be discovered until there is a Divine Encounter with the Holy Spirit. The need of love is revealed through the understanding of God’s vision for you. Love is need personified and fulfillment related. The Need of love can be seen in two phase; love as a person and love as relationship.  Your original identity is love. God is love (His person and identity). You were created in the image and likeness of love (God). Love is you and your identity is...

God allowed every thing that has happened to happen so that He can save you from the situation. Comfort was almost taking you away from your personal relationship with God so the comfort has to go in order for God to save you from your comfort zone. God allowed the opportunity to fail and He made sure the relationship didn’t work out because God has seen the future and He knows if he permits it – that will be a great destruction awaiting to happen.  Here you are, you are angry that what you wanted did not go through but one thing you did not know is – God withheld what you wanted from you because He has seen the future – what you wanted was destruction awaiting to happen.  Did he or she say it’s over? Did he or she call off the engagement? Did you miss that opportunity? Praise God! You have no idea of the future stress God just delivered you from – God knew this man or lady or the opportunity will end up stressing you and stopping you from fulfilling purpose. God...

John 11:1 - 44 We live in a generation that is full of pain, regrets and hurts. We live in a time where people have given up on loving, trusting and dreaming because of their experiences have put them in CHAINS. We live in a generation that think LOVE is a feeling forgetting that LOVE is their personality. What is LOVE? LOVE is a living, a personality, and a lifestyle that has His own desires. LOVE is the reality of the person of God. You have being created in the Image of LOVE, which makes you the person of LOVE (LOVE is you). LOVE is not an experience but an experience. LOVE is not a feeling yet you can feel it. LOVE is not what people give to you, it is who you have being created to be – LOVE is you.  LOVE is not a relationship but every relationship needs LOVE for sustenance. LOVE is relational but you must define her. LOVE is not what you describe, LOVE is a lifestyle you express (LOVE is you).  LOVE is not something you search for neither is it far away f...

As a man, you were not salvaged (saved) to CHASE ladies, sex, fame, power, mansion, companies…etc. The Lord has set you apart to CHASE His plan, his PURPOSE and his VISION for your life. THAT IS THE REAL CHASE! As ladies, you were not salvaged (saved) to CHASE money, sex, fame, mansions, power, marriage…etc. God has ordained you to CHASE His plan, his PURPOSE and his VISION for your life. This is the real CHASE God has ordained you to embrace.  Stop chasing greatness – greatness is who you were born to be. CHASE what will make greatness to CHASE – DIVINE PURPOSE. CHASE your calling. What has the Lord called you to do? CHASE it with all your strength. CHASE your PURPOSE. What is it you have found in the word of God as your PURPOSE for existence? CHASE it with all your strength. CHASE your VISION. What’s the VISION God’s word has birthed in your spirit man? CHASE it with all your strength. CHASE Gods plan for your life. What is the knowledge and direction God’s word has ...

You are welcome to STRETCH YOUTH SUMMIT. In this month of September, we shall be looking into a topic the HOLY SPIRIT has instructed me to teach through His Grace. Last Month (August), we looked into the issue of ‘THE YELLOW CARD’ and the Lord was able to heal hurting hearts, and deal with certain issues we’ve over looked. Praise God! Today’s lecture is a continuation of last month seminar and if you were not around for the last seminar, kindly visit our blog hopeexpresionforum.blogspot.com and search for “THE YELLOW CARD” and read.  Let’s go into the business of the day and may the HOLY SPIRIT possess your heart with the truth of his word as we start in Jesus Name – Amen. Our Text is taken from Acts 9:1 – 6 What is the CHASE? The CHASE is a lifestyle and a culture of some one channeling all efforts towards achieving a defined goal. It’s a conscious decision you make towards achieving a goal defined. Every body is chasing some thing either kno...

What’s your attitude towards phone calls, text messages, whatsup chat…etc? Do you value and return every effort men and ladies put into communicating with you? Stop making the men and ladies around you feel communication is a crime. Stop making them feel they are not good enough to communicate with you. Stop making them feel they are inferior to you. Even if the communication is affecting your walk with God – politely tell them your values. Make them understand your point of view and stand by it firmly. For how long will you continue to live in disobedience? For how long will you refuse the kings command? The king’s command is God’s word. In your present relationship, is the word of God your priority? The does and don’t in your life presently, were they created by God’s word (the kings command) ? Who defines the right and wrong in your relationship? Who set the pace of your priority? Who determines your response to the situations in your life? Who determines your attitude, m...

But the queen Vashti refused to come at the king's commandment by his chamberlains : therefore was the king very wroth, and his anger burned in him. YELLOW CARD – No 1 The first YELLOW CARD goes the sets of youths and teenagers who do not have a clue about their identity or purpose (Ignorance). For you to enjoy this salvation and relationship (platonic & emotional), you must come to a place of asking the Holy Spirit – WHO AM I? You will always be a victim of abusive relationship (platonic & emotional) if you do not know who you are and what you stand for in life. The major reason why youths and teenagers suffers in their walk with God and in relationship (platonic & emotional) is because 85% of them have no idea of who they are and what God has created them to stand for in life. There is a misconception here – the first need of a youth or teenager is not love, money or fame or dating BUT self awareness. Self awareness is the function of who you are...