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Yellow Card (Warning Signal) - Part 3

What’s your attitude towards phone calls, text messages, whatsup chat…etc? Do you value and return every effort men and ladies put into communicating with you? Stop making the men and ladies around you feel communication is a crime. Stop making them feel they are not good enough to communicate with you. Stop making them feel they are inferior to you. Even if the communication is affecting your walk with God – politely tell them your values. Make them understand your point of view and stand by it firmly.

For how long will you continue to live in disobedience? For how long will you refuse the kings command? The king’s command is God’s word. In your present relationship, is the word of God your priority? The does and don’t in your life presently, were they created by God’s word (the kings command)? Who defines the right and wrong in your relationship? Who set the pace of your priority? Who determines your response to the situations in your life? Who determines your attitude, mindset, manner of approach? Who determine your approach to proposal martially? Who determines your identity? Who determines your values? Who determines your friends? Who determines YOU? Is it you, God or what your friends or society throws at you?

The perfection the Lord will always confront you with is not a situation far from you but they are experiences of what you should know, and understand. However, when you lack the discipline to learn, and understand the times and season you live, you will experience shame. Discovering yourself and preparing your self is not good enough, you must learn to understand the times and season surrounding you.

Queen Vashti forgot that every respect, and honour entitled to her was an extension of the respect and honour that rested on the king. This is the major problem in relationships. You are as valuable as the value you show to the people surround you and when you think that without the people surround you, you still exist then you are joking. Togetherness or oneness is what adds beauty to every relationship and communication. Here is the place of “we and us” instead of I, and me. This is the experience of been considerate with the people we love. The day you stop valuing the people that values you, that day marks the end of the value the people place on you.

Every body in the body of Christ is becoming Queen Vashti instead of Esther. God is looking for Esther who can be patient enough to listen with an obedient heart. This personality of Godly attitude can win the heart of men (men of vision) and also open the door of a lasting relationship for your life.  This is what God is looking for and the Lord has asked me to announce to you that ESTHER IS AROUND! God has prepared Esther and she is around the corner. You better accept correction, grow and learn to understand the times and season you are living in through God’s word or you will lose what you have.

As for that caring man or lady around you that you have been disrespecting, Esther is around. He/she will soon take over your position. As for the correction and rebukes, you have been taken for granted, you will soon learn in a hard way. People correct you because they want the beauty in you to rise, and the best in you to shine. If you do not accept the correction now, the seven (perfection) eunuchs, will take away that which belongs to you.

Queen Vashti had seven years, and ten months within her reach to adjust, learn, prepare and understand the time she is living in yet, she wasted them. She did nothing about her imperfect character, thoughts and attitude and that led her to shame and disgrace.

Perfection and completeness were available for queen vashti, they were at her reach yet she missed out because she never searched to know, understand and apply the wisdom that would have improved her life into the kind of person God want her to become. However, Esther’s preparation met her opportunity.

One of the greatest things to learn is the reality of time and season of God’s different mode of operation in our lives.

Mordecai was a guiding tool (the Holy Spirit/Mentor) behind the life of Esther, and because of obedience, she became the queen. Esther found favour in the sight of the king not for the fact that she prayed well, it was because her preparation and her understanding of time and season through the wisdom of God - spoke for her. This situation reveals to me that your acknowledgement, and understanding of God’s operation in your life, holds the key that unlocks your Divine Encounter in God. This is the path to your destiny. Esther preparation met her opportunity and not just that alone, her understanding about her opportunity spoke for her.

The Holy Spirit is warning you today. You can’t afford to continue living your life like this. Drop this pride, disobedience and carelessness towards Gods word and your life. Respect God, respect yourself and respect the people surrounding you. Value what you’ve got else you loose it. THIS IS THE YELLOW CARD!

I can’t teach you every thing on this topic. May the Spirit of the Lord guild you in every aspect of your life in Jesus name. The Lord be with you and help you in Jesus name.

Shalom!

PRAYERS

Ask the Holy Spirit to help you in any area of your life – the Lord – is warning you.

Ask the Holy Spirit to help you develop the quality of Esther.

Ask the Holy Spirit to teach you how to value the people around you.

Ask the Holy Spirit to help you to conquer the attitude of despising people, and abusing people.

Ask the Holy Spirit to give a heart of obedience to God’s instructions.

Ask the Holy Spirit to open the eyes of your understanding to the true worth He has kept in your life. 

Ask the Holy Spirit to teach you the detail of His plans and Purpose for your life.

Stand in the gap for all the youths and teenagers in the body of Christ and pray as you are led.

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