But the queen Vashti refused to come at the king's commandment by his chamberlains : therefore was the king very wroth, and his anger burned in him. YELLOW CARD – No 1 The first YELLOW CARD goes the sets of youths and teenagers who do not have a clue about their identity or purpose (Ignorance). For you to enjoy this salvation and relationship (platonic & emotional), you must come to a place of asking the Holy Spirit – WHO AM I? You will always be a victim of abusive relationship (platonic & emotional) if you do not know who you are and what you stand for in life. The major reason why youths and teenagers suffers in their walk with God and in relationship (platonic & emotional) is because 85% of them have no idea of who they are and what God has created them to stand for in life. There is a misconception here – the first need of a youth or teenager is not love, money or fame or dating BUT self awareness. Self awareness is the function of who you are...