But the queen Vashti
refused to come at the king's commandment by his chamberlains:
therefore was the king very wroth, and his anger burned in him.
YELLOW
CARD – No 1
The first YELLOW CARD goes the sets of youths and
teenagers who do not have a clue about their identity or purpose (Ignorance). For you to enjoy this
salvation and relationship (platonic & emotional), you must come to a place
of asking the Holy Spirit – WHO AM I? You will always be a victim of abusive
relationship (platonic & emotional) if you do not know who you are and what
you stand for in life. The major reason why youths and teenagers suffers in
their walk with God and in relationship (platonic & emotional) is because
85% of them have no idea of who they are and what God has created them to stand
for in life.
There is a misconception
here – the first need of a youth or teenager is not love, money or fame or
dating BUT self awareness. Self awareness is the function of who you are
according to the definition of God’s word. Another name for it is purpose
discovery. To succeed in life, you must know who you are and you must discover
the true worth on the inside of you. The only way is you asking the Holy Spirit
to teach and train you through the studying of the word of God.
Why did God create you?
What is your passion? What are your gifts? What is your creativity? What do you
like and why do you like them? What do you dislike and why do you dislike them?
What course do you stand for in life? What are you willing to die for in this
life? What is the “why” behind your existence?
Find the ‘why’ behind
your existence through the studying of the word of God. Stop impressing people
or people pleasing. It’s time to please the Lord. Stop ignoring your self
development on the platform of relationship (platonic & emotional). Find
yourself and be yourself – your self is not your own greed but the reality of
what God has planned for you to become.
Vashti
the queen lack the knowledge and understand of who is. If she knew, she could
have obeyed the king – her husband. The first advantage of Esther over Vashti the
queen was self awareness or purpose discovery.
But the queen Vashti
refused to come at the king's commandment by his chamberlains:
therefore was the king very wroth, and his anger burned in him.
YELLOW
CARD – No 2
The second YELLOW CARD goes to the set of youths
and teenagers that have embrace CARELESSNESS.
These are the days you must understand that being a man do not in any way imply
that ladies are inferior to you. Being a lady do not in any way mean men are
inferior to you. One of the warning signals the Lord is giving is for youths
and teenagers to start respecting gender difference. Being a lady is unique and
being a man is unique. The same value God has for the man is what he has for
the ladies. Our gender design might be different but our quality is the same.
You can’t just talk any
how, joke any how, decide any how, and do what pleases you. Enough of you being
careless.
The Lord is giving his
people YELLOW CARD because RESPECT is slowly shifting away from
the relationship (platonic &
emotional) people nurture these days. Stop comparing your self with the
people around you. Your value is not determine by what you have and others do
not have – your value is determine by you understanding and respecting the
people that lack what you have - with the consciousness that these people also
have some things you do not have.
Disrespect from Vashti the queen to the king was a
default on the queen because she lacked self development. No capacity or
preparation. Disrespect is the manifestation of indiscipline or lack of a
trained attitude, mindset and manner of approach. If you don’t know what God
has created you to become, you will never respect your self. And if you don’t
respect yourself, you will never respect the people around you.
But the queen Vashti
refused to come at the king's commandment by his chamberlains:
therefore was the king very wroth, and his anger burned in him.
YELLOW
CARD – No 3
The third YELLOW CARD goes to the set of youths
and teenagers that have embrace PRIDE.
Irrespective of who you are and what you have achieved – you must come to a
place of you acknowledging that God helped you. Don’t take the mercy of God for
granted. Don’t deceive your self to believe all you have and all you’ve got
were your strength. YOU ARE NOTHING WITHOUT GOD AND YOU ARE USELESS IF YOU ARE
NOT OF HELP TO THE PEOPLE AROUND YOU. THE BEAUTY OF GREATNESS LIES IN YOUR
ABILITY OF ADDING VALUE TO THE LIVES OF THE PEOPLE AROUND YOU.
Don’t let your beauty
deceive you. Don’t let your salary deceive you. Don’t let the designer wear
deceive you. Don’t let the expensive phones and designer perfume deceive you.
Don’t let your family background to deceive you. No matter your uniqueness, you
still need the people around you. Humble your self and acknowledge that the
Grace of our Lord Jesus Christ helped you.
You don’t have to be
rude to people because of your position and achievement. You don’t need to
despise people for their failures; you succeed because God helped you – why are
you behaving like it was your own effort that brought you were you are now?
Being a pretty and
successful lady does not mean you have to be rude, disrespectful and
disobedient to people around you. It doesn’t mean you should ignore the greeting
attitude. Learn how to greet people politely. Be friendly and being friendly to
men does not mean you are cheap. Being friendly to ladies does not mean you are
weak. Being unfriendly makes you appear so cheap and weak because it displays
your insecurity.
To be continued...
To be continued...
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