Every aspect of your life needs love (relationship to survive but how can you know the right person? Relationship (love) is not just about dating; its exchange of communication for the fulfillment of Gods vision.  The need of relationship (love) is in the understanding of Gods expectation for your life. The expectation of God for your life is what we call God’s vision for your life. Before you see relationship (love) as a necessity, you must first find out God’s vision (expectation) for your life. This is the foundation for love (relationship). Having a wrong relationship is a display of your ignorance about God’s expectation (vision).  If you know God’s expectation (vision) for your life, you will know people to avoid. If you know God’s expectation (vision) for your life, you will know people to relate. People are not meant to establish relationship (love) without the absence of direction and vision. Every relationship is meant to meet a need in your God’s giv...

As a man, you were not salvaged (saved) to CHASE ladies, sex, fame, power, mansion, companies…etc. The Lord has set you apart to CHASE His plan, his PURPOSE and his VISION for your life. THAT IS THE REAL CHASE! As ladies, you were not salvaged (saved) to CHASE money, sex, fame, mansions, power, marriage…etc. God has ordained you to CHASE His plan, his PURPOSE and his VISION for your life. This is the real CHASE God has ordained you to embrace.  Stop chasing greatness – greatness is who you were born to be. CHASE what will make greatness to CHASE – DIVINE PURPOSE. CHASE your calling. What has the Lord called you to do? CHASE it with all your strength. CHASE your PURPOSE. What is it you have found in the word of God as your PURPOSE for existence? CHASE it with all your strength. CHASE your VISION. What’s the VISION God’s word has birthed in your spirit man? CHASE it with all your strength. CHASE Gods plan for your life. What is the knowledge and direction God’s word has ...

What’s your attitude towards phone calls, text messages, whatsup chat…etc? Do you value and return every effort men and ladies put into communicating with you? Stop making the men and ladies around you feel communication is a crime. Stop making them feel they are not good enough to communicate with you. Stop making them feel they are inferior to you. Even if the communication is affecting your walk with God – politely tell them your values. Make them understand your point of view and stand by it firmly. For how long will you continue to live in disobedience? For how long will you refuse the kings command? The king’s command is God’s word. In your present relationship, is the word of God your priority? The does and don’t in your life presently, were they created by God’s word (the kings command) ? Who defines the right and wrong in your relationship? Who set the pace of your priority? Who determines your response to the situations in your life? Who determines your attitude, m...

If we must go far with God and in relationship, we must learn to give attention to the “why?” instead of the “what?” The challenge is not the PAIN - the big question you must answer is “why did the PAIN come?” Every PAIN is an assignment and that is the truth. The assignment is to stretch you, improve you or teach you. PAIN is not your enemy. Salvation is a journey of transformation which involves the experience of PAIN and change. The ability for you to change your negative mindset to a Godly mindset will take you through PAIN . Salvation is a platform where you must unlearn in other to learn afresh. This is a platform where you must un-believe in other for you to believe afresh. All these come with and through PAIN . PAIN is part of the tools God uses in building you and preparing you. PAIN is meant to produce maturity in you. When your calling becomes a source of PAIN to you – look unto Jesus. When helping people puts you into trouble - look unto Jesu...

Here are seven steps you can take to develop your character. 1. Being the Best in Every Area-What is character? Your character is the degree to which you live your life consistent with high, life-enhancing values. A person who lacks character compromises on higher order values in favor of lower order expedience, or who has no values at all. Your adherence to what you believe to be right and true is the real measure of the person you have become to this moment. 2. Define What “Excellence” Means to You-Let we say that one of your values is "excellence." Your definition of excellence could be, "Excellence means that I set the highest standards for myself in everything I do. I do my very best in every situation and under all circumstances. I constantly strive to be better in my work, and as a person in my relationships. I recognize that excellence is a lifelong journey and I work every day to become better and better in everything I do." 3. Organize Your Actions-W...