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The Need of Love - Part 2

Every aspect of your life needs love (relationship to survive but how can you know the right person? Relationship (love) is not just about dating; its exchange of communication for the fulfillment of Gods vision. 

The need of relationship (love) is in the understanding of Gods expectation for your life. The expectation of God for your life is what we call God’s vision for your life. Before you see relationship (love) as a necessity, you must first find out God’s vision (expectation) for your life. This is the foundation for love (relationship).

Having a wrong relationship is a display of your ignorance about God’s expectation (vision).  If you know God’s expectation (vision) for your life, you will know people to avoid. If you know God’s expectation (vision) for your life, you will know people to relate.

People are not meant to establish relationship (love) without the absence of direction and vision. Every relationship is meant to meet a need in your God’s given vision. Any relationship (love) must be in tune with Gods expectation (vision) for your life. Relationship (love) is needed for communication of Gods expectation (vision) for your life. The need to share and receive truth is the beginning of relationship (vision). 

Relationship (love) is not just about dating; it’s about carrying out your divine vision. In the area of your talent, your relationship (love) must feed its self development. In the area of mindset, you must communicate what you’ve got. In every area of your life, you must connect with people through your Gods given vision.

In every relationship (love) you must communicate with the aim of meeting a need and gaining fulfilment. Every communication must be in line with God’s expectation (vision) towards your life. Every relationship must have the platform of communication. Every communication in every relationship must be established on divine vision.

Vision (Gods expectation) for your life is the only source for any kind of relationship. Vision (God’s expectation for your life is the only platform of communication in any relationship (love) you keep. Vision (God’s expectation) for your life contains His plans and purpose for creating you. The understanding of Gods plan and purpose is what will point your calling to you. Your calling is what will dictate the kind of relationship you can maintain. Your calling is what will dictate the kind of communication in every relationship (love) you can maintain.

If you lack a personal relationship with the Holy Spirit, there is no survival for you in love. You must be rooted in your relationship with the Holy Spirit for you to know God’s expectations (vision). The Holy Spirit is the only person that can teach you how the bible can reveal God’s expectation (vision).

God’s expectation (vision) for your life is just a phase of Gods expectations for this generation. Every communication is meant to bring you and people to Gods expectation (vision). Every relationship (love) is meant to help you and people to fulfil Gods expectation.

In every relationship (love), teamwork is the way forward. Every Relationship (love) is not meant to dating alone; platonic is needed. Dating is just a phase in the world of relationship. This spot leaves you with the choice “you can’t do it all alone”; you need people.

Relationship (love) is meant to help you and people to discover Gods expectation (vision). God’s expectation (vision) is meant to strike a communication platform you and people. Communication in relationship (love) is meant to help you understand the individual differences between you and the people around you. Communication in relationship (love) is meant to help you fellowship with people of like mind. Communication in relationship (love) is meant to help you find your place among God’s people. Communication in relationship (love) is meant to help you know God better from other people’s point of view.

Communication in relationship (love) is meant to be a platform for you and people to work as teammates. Communication in relationship (love) helps you to recognise your teammate in Gods expectation for your life. 

Team work with the people of God according to Gods expectations for your life is helpful. Team work helps you enjoy what the Lord has kept in the lives of the people around you. Teamwork helps you find the strength for your weakness in the people around you. When Jesus sent out the disciples, He sent them out in two (teamwork). Teamwork is the kingdom principle for fellowship and ministry. You can’t do it all alone; you need people. You don’t know it all; teamwork is the solution. You don’t have it all; teamwork is the solution.

All the revelation the Holy Spirit have revealed to you is not all God is; there is more. Apart from what God showed you, there are lots of things God has not showed you. The revelation God show you is according to Gods plan for your life.  The revelations God show people is according to Gods plan for their lives. All you know about life is not all there is; there is more. There are things other people know about life that you don’t know. All you know can’t help you; teamwork with people is needed. 

Teamwork is not just for you and the people alone; the Holy Spirit is needed. You need to relate with the Holy Spirit as teammate; set the balance.

Setting the balance is important; you and the Holy Spirit. Setting the balance is important; you and the people around you. Iron sharpens iron; people of like mind improve one another.

During the earthly ministry of Jesus; it was teamwork between Him, His disciples & the Father. What He sees His Father do, He does and what His Father reveals to Him, He says.

Teamwork is not for competition. Teamwork is for complimentary. Even in relationship, the man has his own place and the lady has her place too. If you don’t understand the place of the Holy Spirit and know your place in God; relationship will be frustrating. Where there is no vision; people perish (frustration). 

Being a man or lady, it’s your responsibility to understand Gods expectation (vision) for your life. You can only discover Gods vision through a personal relationship with the Holy Spirit. Studying & meditating your bible through the Holy Spirit will help you find your vision.  The knowledge and understanding of Gods vision for your life is what dictates who you can marry.

Relationship is not the function of human desire; it’s purely rooted in divine vision. Attraction can fade; vision stands the test of time. Sexual urge can be satisfied ; vision stands the test of time. Beauty can fade; vision stands the test of time. Vision (God’s expectation) is the only fact that can stand the test of time.

The understanding vision (Gods expectation) is what will help you recognise when dating become a necessity. There is a time to be single and there is a time dating becomes a necessity. The understanding of vision for your life is what will determine the time to be single and when to date. There is a time to be single and learn what relationship entails. There is a time to date and experience all you have learnt about relationship. The understanding of your vision in Christ s what will help you understand time and seasons.

 understanding Gods expectation (vision) is what will determine who is meant for platonic relationship. Understanding Gods expectation (vision) is what will determine who is meant for emotional relationship.  Understanding your vision in Christ is the beginning of you understanding the NEED OF LOVE. 

The understanding of Gods expectation (vision) for your life is what will determine platonic or emotional relationship. Platonic or emotional; your conversation must be in line with Gods expectation (vision). The understanding of Gods expectation will determine your mind-set. 

Communication is teamwork; if you want people to listen to you, you must listen to them. If you want people to talk to you, you must be friendly and talk to them.

Your conversation is not meant to tear people but to build people. Communication is about you listening to understand people from their point of view. Communication is you expressing your point of view to people. Communication is all about understanding.

Communication is the expression of a specific knowledge, understanding and wisdom. Your knowledge, understanding and wisdom must be defined by the vision (Gods expectation) for your life. Communication is all about concept and precept of life.

Friendship & relationship is not needed if vision (Gods expectation) is not in view. Every thing about platonic or emotional is meant for the fulfillment of vision (Gods vision). Every platonic or emotional relationship must be defined by God's Word. Every platonic or emotional relationship must have a specific plan in Christ. Every platonic or emotional relationship must have a specific divine assignment in view. Every platonic and emotional relationship must be sustained by teamwork according to Gods will.

Every platonic or emotional relationship must feed your talent, creativity and skill positively. Every platonic or emotional relationship must feed your personal relationship with God positively. Every platonic or emotional relationship must feed your personal self development positively. Every platonic or emotional relationship must point you to your Gods given vision. Every platonic or emotional relationship must give you the freedom to be who God wants you to be. Every platonic or emotional relationship must improve your character in God’s nature. Every platonic or emotional relationship must be Christ centred. 

Every platonic or emotional relationship must be built on teamwork. You don’t know it all, have it all or have seen it all; teamwork is a necessity. You alone by yourself will not be able to enjoy the fullness of God; you need people. You need people and people need you. Stop judging people’s weakness with your own strength. Stop counting peoples fault just to justify your own faults. You are the answer to the faults you see in people. People are the answer to the faults they see in you. You were created a blessing to the people around you positively. The people around you were created as a blessing to your own life.

Every platonic or emotional relationship can only survive by teamwork.

This is the need of love.

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