Life is not about dating or marriage alone. Life is a complete package that entails the physical, spiritual, social, intellectual, emotional, and financial. It's your duty to nurture every phase of your life via Gods word. You can't leave any side of your life unkept and expect result. Give more attention to your self and to every happenings in your life. Don't be a spectator in your own life. Get involved in dictating what happens in your life. You can only do that when you walk in every word of God. You can only walk in Gods Word, when you study to know and understand it. Understanding is not enough until you practice what you understand. You are the only obstacle and helper you must acknowledge. Be careful of what you choose to believe and what inspires your believe. Nothing can complete you perfectly than your self in Christ. You are a total package...not the better half of God or any body. Value your self and pay kin attention to the healthy state of your physica...

What’s your attitude towards phone calls, text messages, whatsup chat…etc? Do you value and return every effort men and ladies put into communicating with you? Stop making the men and ladies around you feel communication is a crime. Stop making them feel they are not good enough to communicate with you. Stop making them feel they are inferior to you. Even if the communication is affecting your walk with God – politely tell them your values. Make them understand your point of view and stand by it firmly. For how long will you continue to live in disobedience? For how long will you refuse the kings command? The king’s command is God’s word. In your present relationship, is the word of God your priority? The does and don’t in your life presently, were they created by God’s word (the kings command) ? Who defines the right and wrong in your relationship? Who set the pace of your priority? Who determines your response to the situations in your life? Who determines your attitude, m...

If we must go far with God and in relationship, we must learn to give attention to the “why?” instead of the “what?” The challenge is not the PAIN - the big question you must answer is “why did the PAIN come?” Every PAIN is an assignment and that is the truth. The assignment is to stretch you, improve you or teach you. PAIN is not your enemy. Salvation is a journey of transformation which involves the experience of PAIN and change. The ability for you to change your negative mindset to a Godly mindset will take you through PAIN . Salvation is a platform where you must unlearn in other to learn afresh. This is a platform where you must un-believe in other for you to believe afresh. All these come with and through PAIN . PAIN is part of the tools God uses in building you and preparing you. PAIN is meant to produce maturity in you. When your calling becomes a source of PAIN to you – look unto Jesus. When helping people puts you into trouble - look unto Jesu...

Do you feel pressure to change who you are so you will be accepted? Have you ever tried to be someone else just to fit in with a group of people? Have you ever tried to do something impressive, just for the sake of others’ approval? I'm sure many of us would probably say 'yes' to at least one of these questions. But why do we do it? Sometimes it's simply because we feel the need to fit in and be accepted. This is a struggle faced by both Christians and non-Christians. The dangers of trying to fit in Some may ask, “ Is it okay for a Christian to become friends with a non-Christian?” The answer is yes. It is important to have fellow Christians in your life, but that does not mean you should limit your friendships to only Christians. Sometimes becoming friends with a non...

God's plan and purpose for your life matters to me too. Your vision in Christ is also important to me. Salvation is not about Hope Xpression forum alone. Salvation is about you & me in Christ. This is not my vision neither your own vision. God's vision lives in us all. Let's lay our differences aside. Christ has called us into one faith, one baptism, & one spirit- Christ. Value the people that supports God's vision in you & value God's vision in their own lives too. You can't stand alone, teamwork is needed. Their vision has a role to play in the vision in you & the vision in you has a role to play in the vision in them. Stop manipulating people because they will surely know & you will loose their trust. Be truthful, be sincere & be honest. Don't use people, please, help people to be useful through the vision in you. Change the way you think. Be more accountable & responsible to God.