Relationship is a tool and platform for maintaining, sustaining and deploying of dreams or purpose. Relationship is a tool and platform for learning, discovering and development your capacity, potentials, ideas and dream. Relationship is a tool and platform for participating in adding value to others and in receiving value from others. Being single is not a curse but an opportunity to discover your self and explore your dream. Being single is a season. There is a time to be single and there is a time for dating. Don't pursue your dream to the extreme and abandon the need for dating. Dating is a necessity and a pleasure. If you can't cultivate a healthy life as a single, dating will frustrate you. Be single and be productive. Be single and be result oriented. Be single and develop your capacity. Be single and understand your direction in life. Be single and Specific about your reason for existence. You are unique and you must dare to be different. Learn to stay where God has ord...

You are welcome to the month of September. It's a new phase and season for so many and you must adjust accordingly. Many people seek for new things and experience but with the old mentality.  The beginning of every start is in your ability to decide a better way of doing what you have been doing. It's a system that you must create through your own ideas and creativity in the direction of your passion and interest in life. Without a clear direction and instructions birthed from God's Word, it becomes impossible for you to sustain any goal in a healthy pattern. Growth and improvement is possible without Jesus, but a healthy growth and improvement for the benefits of God's plan for your life, is impossible without JESUS. The beginning of a start is in you admitting the truth that you need help from Jesus. Secondly, you must be ready to align your Faith, attitude, and decision according to the concept of the lifestyle of Jesus. Thirdly, you must decide to practi...

0.2 The Ring Relationship is the display of what you are capable of offering in the marriage. Its a dress rehearsal for the real deal. Its on a try and error or...a matter of...let's see how it goes. Ladies, there is no point in accepting to date a man...you won't be ready or willing to accept His marriage proposal, when he shows up. Don't taste with your tongue...what you are not ready to bite with your teeth. When a man propose to you...let him define the date for the real deal. It's usually minimum of (3) three months or maximum of (6) six month or (1) one year. Don't let any man tie you down with an engagement ring, when he is not certain about when he wants to get married to you. I am not saying he should have all the money before he proposes... No! He should be willing and determine of what he has planned first...even if the money is not there yet....Faith only respond to detailed and specific plan. Ladies, the fact that he proposed you with a ring does no...

THE HUNGER People sleep every day without food in their belly but the worst is happening daily...look around you..people you claim you love are been  starved with lack of attention. How much attention are you even giving to your self? How much attention are you giving to the very people you claim you love? Some times, its not your money that's needed. Some times its not the whole expensive things you can't offer. IT'S THE ATTENTION YOU ARE NOT GIVING TO EVERY LITTLE THING SURROUNDING YOU AND THOSE YOU LOVE. This is the real problem. Stop starving your talent, capacity, potential, friends and those your love with YOUR ATTENTION. Do you really care? Do you really notice every changes, struggles and pain those you love are going through daily? Please, pay attention. Feed those that are hungry for your attention. Be inspired! # PrinceVictorMatthew

DONT TEST; OBSERVE... Beloved of God, I celebrate you all. You are welcome to another refreshing moment of teaching. We all have fears, worries and doubt. No body wants to have a bad marriage. This is true but the word of God do not in any way permits us to play and toil with peoples feelings just to clear our own fears, worries and doubt's... Its okay to acknowledge your fears, worries and doubt...but its not okay to test any body for it. The result won't be Godly because any thing you didn't start with God won't yield Gods result. I hereby present a solution to you who has some fears, worries and doubt about this lady or guy you feel attracted. OBSERVE... If you have fears about a guy or lady being rude to you in future or in marriage, all you have to do is observe how he or she relates with the people around him or her ...his or her siblings, his or her parents, his or her co worker, his or her street mate.... You will be able to find your answers. The way pe...

Every aspect of your life needs love (relationship to survive but how can you know the right person? Relationship (love) is not just about dating; its exchange of communication for the fulfillment of Gods vision.  The need of relationship (love) is in the understanding of Gods expectation for your life. The expectation of God for your life is what we call God’s vision for your life. Before you see relationship (love) as a necessity, you must first find out God’s vision (expectation) for your life. This is the foundation for love (relationship). Having a wrong relationship is a display of your ignorance about God’s expectation (vision).  If you know God’s expectation (vision) for your life, you will know people to avoid. If you know God’s expectation (vision) for your life, you will know people to relate. People are not meant to establish relationship (love) without the absence of direction and vision. Every relationship is meant to meet a need in your God’s giv...

The need of love is progressive in nature. This has much to do with the revelation of God’s word. The need of love is in phases. The first need of love is “vision. You will never enjoy a true love experience if vision is absent. Vision is the strength and foundation of the need of love. What is vision? Vision is the mental picture of the spoken or written plan of God. Vision is the necessity of life. Vision is the spoken or written word of God. Vision will never be revealed until it is discovered. Vision can never be discovered until there is a Divine Encounter with the Holy Spirit. The need of love is revealed through the understanding of God’s vision for you. Love is need personified and fulfillment related. The Need of love can be seen in two phase; love as a person and love as relationship.  Your original identity is love. God is love (His person and identity). You were created in the image and likeness of love (God). Love is you and your identity is...

God allowed every thing that has happened to happen so that He can save you from the situation. Comfort was almost taking you away from your personal relationship with God so the comfort has to go in order for God to save you from your comfort zone. God allowed the opportunity to fail and He made sure the relationship didn’t work out because God has seen the future and He knows if he permits it – that will be a great destruction awaiting to happen.  Here you are, you are angry that what you wanted did not go through but one thing you did not know is – God withheld what you wanted from you because He has seen the future – what you wanted was destruction awaiting to happen.  Did he or she say it’s over? Did he or she call off the engagement? Did you miss that opportunity? Praise God! You have no idea of the future stress God just delivered you from – God knew this man or lady or the opportunity will end up stressing you and stopping you from fulfilling purpose. God...

John 11:1 - 44 We live in a generation that is full of pain, regrets and hurts. We live in a time where people have given up on loving, trusting and dreaming because of their experiences have put them in CHAINS. We live in a generation that think LOVE is a feeling forgetting that LOVE is their personality. What is LOVE? LOVE is a living, a personality, and a lifestyle that has His own desires. LOVE is the reality of the person of God. You have being created in the Image of LOVE, which makes you the person of LOVE (LOVE is you). LOVE is not an experience but an experience. LOVE is not a feeling yet you can feel it. LOVE is not what people give to you, it is who you have being created to be – LOVE is you.  LOVE is not a relationship but every relationship needs LOVE for sustenance. LOVE is relational but you must define her. LOVE is not what you describe, LOVE is a lifestyle you express (LOVE is you).  LOVE is not something you search for neither is it far away f...

As a man, you were not salvaged (saved) to CHASE ladies, sex, fame, power, mansion, companies…etc. The Lord has set you apart to CHASE His plan, his PURPOSE and his VISION for your life. THAT IS THE REAL CHASE! As ladies, you were not salvaged (saved) to CHASE money, sex, fame, mansions, power, marriage…etc. God has ordained you to CHASE His plan, his PURPOSE and his VISION for your life. This is the real CHASE God has ordained you to embrace.  Stop chasing greatness – greatness is who you were born to be. CHASE what will make greatness to CHASE – DIVINE PURPOSE. CHASE your calling. What has the Lord called you to do? CHASE it with all your strength. CHASE your PURPOSE. What is it you have found in the word of God as your PURPOSE for existence? CHASE it with all your strength. CHASE your VISION. What’s the VISION God’s word has birthed in your spirit man? CHASE it with all your strength. CHASE Gods plan for your life. What is the knowledge and direction God’s word has ...

You are welcome to STRETCH YOUTH SUMMIT. In this month of September, we shall be looking into a topic the HOLY SPIRIT has instructed me to teach through His Grace. Last Month (August), we looked into the issue of ‘THE YELLOW CARD’ and the Lord was able to heal hurting hearts, and deal with certain issues we’ve over looked. Praise God! Today’s lecture is a continuation of last month seminar and if you were not around for the last seminar, kindly visit our blog hopeexpresionforum.blogspot.com and search for “THE YELLOW CARD” and read.  Let’s go into the business of the day and may the HOLY SPIRIT possess your heart with the truth of his word as we start in Jesus Name – Amen. Our Text is taken from Acts 9:1 – 6 What is the CHASE? The CHASE is a lifestyle and a culture of some one channeling all efforts towards achieving a defined goal. It’s a conscious decision you make towards achieving a goal defined. Every body is chasing some thing either kno...

What’s your attitude towards phone calls, text messages, whatsup chat…etc? Do you value and return every effort men and ladies put into communicating with you? Stop making the men and ladies around you feel communication is a crime. Stop making them feel they are not good enough to communicate with you. Stop making them feel they are inferior to you. Even if the communication is affecting your walk with God – politely tell them your values. Make them understand your point of view and stand by it firmly. For how long will you continue to live in disobedience? For how long will you refuse the kings command? The king’s command is God’s word. In your present relationship, is the word of God your priority? The does and don’t in your life presently, were they created by God’s word (the kings command) ? Who defines the right and wrong in your relationship? Who set the pace of your priority? Who determines your response to the situations in your life? Who determines your attitude, m...

But the queen Vashti refused to come at the king's commandment by his chamberlains : therefore was the king very wroth, and his anger burned in him. YELLOW CARD – No 1 The first YELLOW CARD goes the sets of youths and teenagers who do not have a clue about their identity or purpose (Ignorance). For you to enjoy this salvation and relationship (platonic & emotional), you must come to a place of asking the Holy Spirit – WHO AM I? You will always be a victim of abusive relationship (platonic & emotional) if you do not know who you are and what you stand for in life. The major reason why youths and teenagers suffers in their walk with God and in relationship (platonic & emotional) is because 85% of them have no idea of who they are and what God has created them to stand for in life. There is a misconception here – the first need of a youth or teenager is not love, money or fame or dating BUT self awareness. Self awareness is the function of who you are...