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LOVE IN CHAINS- PART 2


God allowed every thing that has happened to happen so that He can save you from the situation. Comfort was almost taking you away from your personal relationship with God so the comfort has to go in order for God to save you from your comfort zone. God allowed the opportunity to fail and He made sure the relationship didn’t work out because God has seen the future and He knows if he permits it – that will be a great destruction awaiting to happen. 

Here you are, you are angry that what you wanted did not go through but one thing you did not know is – God withheld what you wanted from you because He has seen the future – what you wanted was destruction awaiting to happen. 

Did he or she say it’s over? Did he or she call off the engagement? Did you miss that opportunity? Praise God! You have no idea of the future stress God just delivered you from – God knew this man or lady or the opportunity will end up stressing you and stopping you from fulfilling purpose. God just delivered you from an abusive relationship that was waiting to happen. Worship Him!

Did he fail to ask you out? Did she say no to your proposal? Did some one betray you and took that opportunity from you? Praise God! God just delivered you from a relationship that could have frustrated your calling, purpose in Christ and your personal relationship with the Holy Spirit. God just delivered you from a lady or man that won’t respect you or LOVE you back like God has really plan. Stop feeling rejected and depressed. You have no idea on how God has saved you from the future stress.

All the time God said NO to our request and what we truly desire; it’s not due to our sin, or that God hates us. When God say NO, His ”NO” is to rescue you from hidden problems that is awaiting to happen. I know you LOVE him, I know you LOVE her and I know you LOVE that opportunity but LOVE is not enough – YOUR SAFTY IS GOD’S PRIORITY.

You have not being disadvantaged. All you invested into that relationship or business or your family and siblings that failed was a preparation and an experience that will help you and has already made you stronger.

It is true that the business failed and the relationship didn’t work out and the project failed and your parents are not in unity but one thing you must embrace is – you are now wiser, stronger and better than you were back then in the past.

A lot of things failed because they were things you should have done that you failed to do and they were things you did that you should have avoided. Don’t blame your self, you didn’t just know the right principle to apply back then.

LOVE is in CHAIN. You are the LOVE that is in CHAINS. You directly or indirectly permitted this and your approved this when you accepted defeat and gave up on HOPE.

According to the scriptures, Jesus told them to ROLL AWAY THE STONE. Now it’s your time to roll away all your excuse and decisions; decision to never LOVE again, trust again and dream again. Roll away all your excuses.

ROLL AWAY THE STONE; forgive that person, forgive your parents, forgive your siblings, and forgive your self. Roll away the blame. Roll away the judgment. Roll away the condemnation. Roll away the hurts. Roll away the “never ever” decision. Forgive whosoever that has wrong you.

This is a conscious decision you have to make. I know you were victimized. I know you were judged wrongly. You are right to revenge but ROLL AWAY THE STONE.

Just like Jesus instructed them to ROLL AWAY THE STONE. Jesus is giving you that same instruction – ROLL AWAY THE STONE. Don’t think these are my words. JESUS IS SAYING TO YOU – ROLL AWAY THE STONE.

After you might have done this, give thanks to God for the rescue even thou you misunderstood God’s operation in your life. Thank God for snatching you away from the relationship and opportunity that could have taken you out of His presence and plan for your life. Thank Him for being faithful and patient with you even thou you fought to have your way without God’s approval. 

In this same attitude, look up to the Holy Spirit to LOOSE YOU and RELEASE YOU. Look up to the Holy Spirit for the healing. Look up to the Holy Spirit to mend your heart again. Look up to the Holy Spirit to teach you how to trust again. Look up to the Holy Spirit to teach you how to LOVE again. Look up to the Holy Spirit to teach you how to revisit your vision in Christ. Look up to the Holy Spirit to help and teach you how to re-position your self.

You need to the set loose from your past, from your hurts, from the mental torture, from the guilt and all that has held you bound.

LOVE is not wicked. LOVE still exist. Men are not beast. Ladies are not useless. LOVE is not fake. You can trust again. LOVE is beautiful. Relationship is an amazing experience. Refuse to think with the old pattern and begin to think in this new person that you are now.

You are free to go into discovering details of your God’s given vision. You are free to LOVE your self again. You are free to accept your self again. You are free to start all over again in your personal relationship with the Holy Spirit. You are free to start studying your bible again. You are free to trust again. You are free to HOPE again. You are free to dream again. You are free to become who God has wired you to be. You are free to become CHRIST on earth.

You are free to forgive and apologise when necessary. You are free to embrace the life God has designed for your life. The Holy Spirit has set you free today. The word of God concerning your life is speaking. There is some thing God has written for your life. God has an intention for your life. God has planned your days and he has arranged your season. It is time for you to become who God has destined you to be.

Your mind is free. Your mind is free from fears, worries, doubts, confusion and insecurity today in Jesus Name

It’s not too late because THERE IS STILL HOPE FOR YOU IN CHRIST JESUS.

God LOVEs you so much.

The Grace of our Lord Jesus Christ is so much available for you.

The Holy Spirit is so committed to you.

Shalom!  

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