Every aspect of your life needs love (relationship to survive but how can you know the right person? Relationship (love) is not just about dating; its exchange of communication for the fulfillment of Gods vision.  The need of relationship (love) is in the understanding of Gods expectation for your life. The expectation of God for your life is what we call God’s vision for your life. Before you see relationship (love) as a necessity, you must first find out God’s vision (expectation) for your life. This is the foundation for love (relationship). Having a wrong relationship is a display of your ignorance about God’s expectation (vision).  If you know God’s expectation (vision) for your life, you will know people to avoid. If you know God’s expectation (vision) for your life, you will know people to relate. People are not meant to establish relationship (love) without the absence of direction and vision. Every relationship is meant to meet a need in your God’s giv...

If we must go far with God and in relationship, we must learn to give attention to the “why?” instead of the “what?” The challenge is not the PAIN - the big question you must answer is “why did the PAIN come?” Every PAIN is an assignment and that is the truth. The assignment is to stretch you, improve you or teach you. PAIN is not your enemy. Salvation is a journey of transformation which involves the experience of PAIN and change. The ability for you to change your negative mindset to a Godly mindset will take you through PAIN . Salvation is a platform where you must unlearn in other to learn afresh. This is a platform where you must un-believe in other for you to believe afresh. All these come with and through PAIN . PAIN is part of the tools God uses in building you and preparing you. PAIN is meant to produce maturity in you. When your calling becomes a source of PAIN to you – look unto Jesus. When helping people puts you into trouble - look unto Jesu...

Beloved, l want to use this time to talk to you about the major mistakes ladies make today. Your emotions are blessings from the Lord and do not in any way try to kill your emotions or shy away from them. Either you are romantic in nature or you are passionate in nature. refuse to ignore these powerful treasure within you. Don't try to ignore your emotional realities. Embrace them. Value them. take your time to understand how your emotions functions. Ask God to give you the wisdom to manage them according to His will for your life. Either you love kissing or hugs or sex, that is not the issue. That's your nature. You can't pretend to your self.  All the Lord is asking me to tell you is, accept your self the way you are. Ask The Holy Spirit to teach you have to manage these desires till you get married. Be free and be sensitive to your body and how it functions emotionally. Take your time to understand your emotions. Talking about your emotions, it is not just kissing,...