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THE NEED OF LOVE - Part 1

The need of love is progressive in nature. This has much to do with the revelation of God’s word. The need of love is in phases.

The first need of love is “vision. You will never enjoy a true love experience if vision is absent. Vision is the strength and foundation of the need of love.

What is vision?

Vision is the mental picture of the spoken or written plan of God. Vision is the necessity of life. Vision is the spoken or written word of God. Vision will never be revealed until it is discovered. Vision can never be discovered until there is a Divine Encounter with the Holy Spirit.

The need of love is revealed through the understanding of God’s vision for you. Love is need personified and fulfillment related.

The Need of love can be seen in two phase; love as a person and love as relationship. 

Your original identity is love. God is love (His person and identity). You were created in the image and likeness of love (God). Love is you and your identity is love. When you say the need of love, we are saying; your value as a person. When we say the need of love, we are saying – the necessity for a relationship.

The need of love (YOU)

God’s vision for your life made your existence a necessity. Gods Vision for your life is a total sum of his plan and purpose. What God wants to achieve through your life is His vision for your life.

God has a need – God created you as a solution to that need. Your existence is a provision for meeting God’s need. God has a need – He has a plan He needs to communicate. The second need of God for creating you is communication. This communication is all about the revealing of Gods plan and purpose behind your existence. You will not be able to meet God’s need if you don’t know Gods plan. Your existence is meant to enable Gods plan and purpose a reality.

The need of love (you) is communication. You have to be available for God to communicate His plan and purpose. The first need of God; He has envisioned a plan he wants to achieve. The second need of God; He needs to communicate the details of His plans. The third need of God; He needs a teammate to work with His Assignment. Gods Assignment is to fulfill His plan and purpose for creation.

God’s relationship with you is meant to meet your need. Your relationship with God is meant to meet Gods need. Your relationship with God is meant to bring you fulfillment. God’s relationship with you is meant to bring God fulfillment.

The need of love (you) is communication. Love (you) is needed because of Gods vision. Love (you) is needed as a teammate with God as He fulfill His Assignment. The Assignment of God is to make you ready for the fulfillment His plan and purpose. Your assignment is your availability to the operations of God in other to fulfill them.

God is love and He is the source of love to you. Love is the beauty and expression of God to you. Love is you and you are the source of love to your generation. Love is the beauty and expression of your self to your generation.

Your existence is for the fulfillment of God’s vision, purpose and plan. God’s existence is meant to offer you fulfillment. The need of a relationship is the beginning of human’s direction in destiny.

The Need of Love (Relationship)

Love (relationship) is not just any thing you go into due to isolation or loneliness. Necessity is what makes love (relationship) needed. God created relationship (love) to be need personified and fulfillment related.

The only necessity that justifies the need of relationship (love) is God’s vision. The nature of God’s vision for your existence is what will determine the need for relationship. As a believer in Christ, the foundation of any relationship (love) is God’s love for your life. God’s vision for your life is simply God’s expectation towards you.

If you know what God expects (vision) from you, you will know “who” & the kind of relationship needed of you. What God expects (vision) from you is what will give you the understanding behind why you need a relationship.

Love (relationship) has different phase & the Holy Spirit can help you if you allow Him.

What Gods expects (vision) from you is what determine the kind of people you should relate. These are different side of you that will die if relationship (love) is absent! 

Your talent need love (relationship) to survive. Your creativity need love (relationship) to survive. Your ideas needs love (relationship) to survive. Your attitude needs love (relationship) to survive. Your mindset needs love (relationship) to survive. Your emotions needs love (relationship) to survive. Your life needs love (relationship) to survive.

Watch out for Part 2 

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