Dating is not a playground; it’s a stewardship ground. Every relationship we step into is an opportunity to reflect God’s heart—His patience, love, integrity, and wisdom. Sadly, many see dating as a place to “try” people instead of honor them. When that happens, hearts become experiments instead of treasures to be handled with care. Scripture reminds us in 1 Corinthians 4:2, “Moreover, it is required in stewards, that a man be found faithful.” Stewardship means treating something that belongs to God with faithfulness and respect. Every person you date carries God’s image. You are not just handling emotions—you’re handling destiny. When you approach dating with that awareness, you begin to see why purity, communication, and boundaries matter. They’re not rules to restrict you; they’re tools to protect what God values. As singles, our season of waiting and dating is part of our training in stewardship. If we learn to handle our hearts and others’ hearts well now, we’ll handle marriage wi...

Before stepping into a relationship, it’s important to pause and reflect on what God has already placed in your care—your time, your talents, and your treasures. These three areas shape how you live, love, and lead in purpose. The way you handle them as a single person reveals how prepared you are to love rightly and build a purposeful relationship. Ecclesiastes 3:1 says, “To everything there is a season, a time for every purpose under heaven.” Your single season is not a waiting room; it’s a building ground. How you invest your time now—through prayer, learning, service, and self-growth—determines your readiness for love later. If you waste your time chasing validation or distractions, you may carry emotional emptiness into the next phase of your life. Redeem your time by prioritizing what strengthens your relationship with God and your purpose. Your talents are divine gifts meant to be discovered and developed before you share your life with someone else. Matthew 25:14-30 teaches abo...

Stewardship is more than managing money; it’s about recognizing that everything you are and everything you have belongs to God. Your life, time, relationships, and even your emotions are divine trusts, not personal possessions. Psalm 24:1 reminds us, “The earth is the Lord’s, and everything in it, the world, and all who live in it.” When you understand this truth as a youth, it changes how you make choices, treat people, and handle opportunities. In dating and relationships, stewardship means honoring God with your heart and choices. You don’t date to fill loneliness; you date to reflect purpose. Your emotions should be guided by wisdom, not impulse. When you see your partner as someone God trusts you to treat with dignity, purity, and patience, your approach changes. You begin to love responsibly and communicate with respect, knowing you’ll give an account for how you handle another person’s heart. For singles, stewardship includes how you use your time and gifts while waiting. Every ...

James 1:19 teaches, “Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry.” This verse holds a secret to lasting relationships. Love is not just spoken in words—it is expressed through listening. A dating relationship where both people listen first will grow healthier and stronger than one filled with constant talking and little understanding. Listening is the language of love because it communicates respect. It tells the other person, “I value what you have to say.” When you are quick to listen, you avoid unnecessary anger and conflict. You show patience, humility, and maturity—qualities that make love stable. For youths navigating dating, this practice can save you from so many avoidable heartbreaks. When listening becomes your first language in love, misunderstandings reduce and your partner feels truly cherished. That’s how love grows into something lasting. Self-Assessment When there’s a disagreement, do I listen first or rush to defend myself? Do my listenin...

Many think love is proven through gifts, attention, or sweet words, but one of the most powerful ways to love is through listening. In dating relationships, listening is not just about hearing—it’s about making your partner feel understood. That understanding has the power to settle arguments, strengthen trust, and deepen connection. When you listen, you are telling your partner, “Your thoughts and feelings matter to me.” That’s far more powerful than rehearsed lines or flashy gestures. True listening creates intimacy because it builds a bond where both people feel safe to be real without fear of being dismissed. The power of listening is that it transforms small conversations into big moments of connection. It can turn misunderstandings into clarity, tension into peace, and distance into closeness. If you want your relationship to last, practice listening more than speaking. Self-Assessment Do I treat listening as equally important as expressing myself in love? How often do I interrup...

In relationships, especially while dating, many young people chase the thrill of romance but forget the power of listening. Love grows stronger when two hearts choose to hear each other deeply. Listening is not passive—it’s active. It means giving your full attention, catching not only the words but also the emotions behind them. When you listen with your heart, you build trust. You show your partner that their voice matters. Lasting love is not just about chemistry; it’s about communication. Without listening, even the strongest attraction fades because no one feels valued when they’re constantly unheard. For dating youths, listening is the glue that keeps the relationship steady. It prevents unnecessary fights, nurtures emotional closeness, and makes both people feel safe. A listening heart becomes a resting place for love to thrive. Self-Assessment Do I listen to my partner as much as I expect them to listen to me? Am I more focused on my response than truly hearing their heart? Hav...

Bitterness is heavy baggage to carry into any relationship. Many singles and dating couples struggle because they are still holding onto past betrayals, heartbreaks, or disappointments. Colossians 3:13 teaches us to forgive as Christ forgave us. Forgiveness is not pretending the hurt never happened; it is releasing the pain so it no longer controls you. Forgiveness is freedom—for you, not just the other person. When you refuse to forgive, you chain yourself to the hurt. This often spills into new friendships and relationships, making it hard to trust or love fully. God calls you to release those chains and walk in healing. For youths learning about love, forgiveness is one of the strongest signs of maturity. It shows that you are not defined by what others did to you but by how Christ has healed you. Forgiveness opens the door for peace, restoration, and healthier relationships. Bitterness poisons the heart, but forgiveness cleanses it. Choosing to forgive is choosing to live free. Eve...

Emotional triggers are those little buttons that, when pressed, make you overreact. For singles and youths, many of these triggers come from past experiences—broken trust, rejection, or words spoken over you in childhood. In dating, if you don’t understand your triggers, you might punish someone for wounds they didn’t cause. Proverbs 19:11 says, “It is to one’s glory to overlook an offense,” reminding us that wisdom calls for self-control. When you know your triggers, you can pause before reacting. For example, if you feel ignored, instead of exploding, you can calmly express your need for attention. If jealousy arises, instead of accusing, you can reflect on whether insecurity is speaking. Being aware of your triggers makes you a healthier partner and friend. Unmanaged triggers can destroy good relationships. If you don’t learn to pause, you will project old pain onto new people. But when you let the Holy Spirit heal those areas, you no longer react blindly—you respond with wisdom. Em...

As long as you interact with people, offense will come—whether you’re single, in a relationship, or simply building friendships. What sets you apart is how you choose to handle it. God never promised that we would never feel hurt, but He calls us to rise above offense. If you carry every small hurt into your next conversation, you’ll sabotage your relationships without realizing it. For singles and dating couples, offense can often arise from unmet expectations, miscommunication, or differences in background. The natural response is to defend yourself or to pull away. But God’s way is higher: He calls you to seek understanding, extend grace, and, where needed, confront in love. Prayerful patience gives you the perspective to see beyond your pain. Bitterness is the real enemy here. If you allow offense to fester, it becomes resentment. But when you deal with offense God’s way, you keep your heart light and your relationships healthy. Instead of replaying the hurt, you release it to God,...

In relationships, especially during dating or courtship, words carry heavy weight. What you say in moments of excitement can build joy, but what you say in moments of frustration can leave wounds that take years to heal. Proverbs 15:1 reminds us that “a soft answer turns away wrath, but grievous words stir up anger.” Learning to manage your tone and choice of words is one of the signs of maturity in relationships. Singles and youths must learn that love is not proven by how quickly you react but by how wisely you respond. It is not enough to be right—you must also be kind. Healing speech allows you to communicate your feelings without tearing the other person apart. This skill will not only serve you in dating but also in your future marriage, friendships, and even ministry. Harsh words may make you feel powerful for a moment, but they create deep cracks in trust and intimacy. Many relationships break not because of big betrayals, but because of the daily cuts from careless words. You ...

In relationships, especially while dating, words carry weight. Proverbs 18:21 says, “Death and life are in the power of the tongue.” What you say can either build a bridge or burn one down. Many promising relationships have been destroyed not by betrayal or distance, but by careless words spoken in moments of anger, insecurity, or impatience. For singles, this season is the best time to practice speaking life, encouragement, and truth—because what you sow with your words now is what you’ll eventually reap in marriage. Uncontrolled words don’t just wound the person you’re speaking to; they reveal the state of your own heart. A harsh tongue often masks unresolved pain or unhealed places. And while apologies can help, they don’t erase the sting of words that cut deep. Think about it: when trust is fragile and love is still growing, one reckless sentence can leave cracks that take years to mend. This is why learning self-control in speech is as important as prayer, vision, or attraction in...

As you navigate the areas of singles, dating, and relationships, understanding your worth and identity in Christ is vital. Reflect on these questions to align your relationship choices with your God-given value: - How does recognizing that you are fearfully and wonderfully made (Psalm 139:14) influence the standards and boundaries you set in your dating relationships? - In what ways does understanding yourself as a new creation in Christ (2 Corinthians 5:17) affect how you approach and engage in romantic relationships? - How does the truth that you are God’s masterpiece (Ephesians 2:10) impact your expectations and self-worth in dating, and how does it guide you in choosing a partner who respects these values? - Reflect on how knowing that you are chosen and loved by God (1 Peter 2:9) shapes the way you approach relationships and ensures that you set boundaries that reflect your true value. - How does understanding that your worth is rooted in your identity in Christ (Galat...

One of the most underrated skills in relationships is listening. Many singles think love is all about talking, texting, or proving a point, but the strength of a relationship is often in the ability to truly hear one another. Listening goes beyond waiting for your turn to speak; it is paying attention to the heart behind the words. Proverbs 18:13 warns, “To answer before listening—that is folly and shame.” When you don’t listen, you miss the chance to understand the person you claim to love. In dating, listening shows respect. It tells your partner, “Your thoughts and feelings matter to me.” Sometimes, the person you’re dating is not looking for you to fix their problem; they just want to know that you care enough to hear them. Listening creates safety, and safety builds trust. Without it, assumptions and misunderstandings become frequent visitors in the relationship. When you practice listening, you train yourself to value understanding over argument. For example, instead of rushing t...

Financial value in a relationship is the wisdom and discipline you bring to how money is earned, managed, and used. What is financial value? It is the ability to handle resources responsibly and plan for the future. Why is it important? Because love may bring two people together, but money often reveals whether that love can stand the test of reality. Who should pay attention to this? Both singles and those dating, because financial carelessness can break trust and create unnecessary conflicts. Proverbs 21:20 says, “The wise store up choice food and olive oil, but fools gulp theirs down.” How do you build financial value? By learning budgeting, saving, giving, and investing in ways that honor God and secure your future. When should this begin? Now, while you are single, because financial habits don’t change magically after marriage. Where does it apply? In your daily lifestyle choices, your ability to resist unnecessary debt, and your willingness to be generous without being wasteful. ...

Emotional value in a relationship is the ability to manage your feelings, show empathy, and create a safe space for love to grow. What is emotional value? It is the maturity to handle conflicts without unnecessary drama, to express love in healthy ways, and to stand strong in difficult times. Why is this important? Because emotions are like fuel in a car—if not managed well, they can either drive you forward or cause an accident. Who should cultivate emotional value? Both singles and those dating, because without emotional maturity, even strong attraction and good intentions can turn into chaos. Proverbs 16:32 says, “Better a patient person than a warrior, one with self-control than one who takes a city.” How do you build emotional value? By learning self-control, practicing forgiveness, and being slow to anger. It also involves becoming a good listener and choosing words that heal rather than hurt. When should this start? Now, while you are single, because marriage won’t suddenly give...

Physical value in a relationship goes beyond appearance; it speaks of health, care, presentation, and discipline. What you invest in your body reflects how you value yourself and the person you are with. Why should this matter? Because your body is the temple of the Holy Spirit (1 Corinthians 6:19-20). Neglecting your physical well-being shows a lack of regard not just for yourself but for the one who will share life with you. Think about it—if you do not take care of yourself, how will you have the strength, energy, and confidence to walk through life with someone else? How you maintain physical value is through consistent healthy habits—eating well, exercising, grooming, and dressing with respect. Who should this concern? Both men and women. The lie many believe is that only women should look attractive or men should only focus on money, but both genders have a responsibility to maintain physical value. When do you start? Not when you finally meet the person you want to marry but now...

Intellectual value in a relationship is the ability to think, reason, and make wise decisions that shape your future. What is intellectual value? It is your mindset, knowledge, problem-solving skills, and the ability to grow in wisdom. Why is it important? Because love without sense will soon become a burden. A person who refuses to develop intellectually may frustrate the progress of a relationship. Who should pursue intellectual growth? Both singles and those dating, because marriage is not just about emotions but about building a life together that requires wisdom and sound judgment (Proverbs 4:7). How do you build intellectual value? By reading books, learning new skills, asking questions, and exposing yourself to positive knowledge that sharpens your mind. When should you begin? Now, while you are single, because what you fail to build in yourself today may become a prayer point tomorrow. Where does this apply? In everyday conversations, in how you manage finances, in raising chil...

Spiritual value in a relationship is the foundation upon which everything else stands. What is spiritual value? It is your walk with God, your obedience to His Word, and the depth of your faith in Christ. Why is it important? Because two cannot walk together except they agree (Amos 3:3). A person who does not share your spiritual convictions may pull you away from God’s plan for your life. Who should prioritize this? Both singles and those dating, because spiritual alignment determines whether your love will flourish or frustrate your destiny. How do you build spiritual value? By staying rooted in prayer, consistent in Bible study, and committed to a local church. It also shows in your choices—whether you choose integrity over compromise, purity over pleasure, and service over selfishness. When should this start? Not after engagement or marriage but right now, while you are single. Where does this apply? In every part of your relationship, from the way you communicate, to how you handl...

Sexual value in a relationship is the discipline and purity you uphold concerning your body and desires. What is sexual value? It is the standard you place on how you honor God with your sexuality. Why is this important? Because sex is not just a physical act; it is a spiritual covenant designed for marriage. Who should care about sexual values? Both singles and those dating, because disregarding God’s design in this area can leave scars, regrets, and unnecessary baggage. 1 Thessalonians 4:3 reminds us, “It is God’s will that you should be sanctified: that you should avoid sexual immorality.” How do you build sexual value? By setting boundaries, avoiding compromising environments, and renewing your mind with God’s Word. When do you start? Now, not when you are engaged or married, because self-control is practiced long before the wedding day. Where does this apply? In how you relate with the opposite sex, the conversations you entertain, the media you consume, and the spaces you allow y...

Dating is not just about taking cute pictures together or having someone to text every night. It’s about partnership, and partnership thrives on consideration. If you’re not considerate of someone’s feelings, their pain, fears, or even the things that frustrate them, you’re not ready for a healthy relationship. Why? Because love is not self-centered. Galatians 5:13 says, “Serve one another humbly in love.” Relationships break down when one person only thinks about themselves. Selfishness is dangerous because it hides behind excuses like “that’s just who I am” or “they’ll understand.” But the truth is, love does not seek its own way. 1 Corinthians 13:5 reminds us, “Love… is not self-seeking.” If your first reaction in a disagreement is always about how you feel, what you want, or what you deserve, then you’re not loving the way God intended. A healthy relationship means sometimes putting their needs above your convenience. Being considerate doesn’t mean you will always agree. It means y...

Love isn’t just about words or feelings—it’s about what you do. In dating, serving your partner and others through small, intentional acts of kindness shows Christ’s love and builds relationships that are strong, healthy, and meaningful. For young people, learning to serve thoughtfully is a way to show care, maturity, and character while respecting boundaries and God’s timing. Here’s how you can practice love in action in your relationship. Thoughtful Communication Even a simple message of encouragement can make a huge difference. Sending a kind word, a prayer, or a note of affirmation before an important exam or challenging day shows that you’re paying attention and care about your partner’s life. These small gestures demonstrate love and respect without pressuring intimacy, helping your relationship grow emotionally and spiritually. Active Listening Truly listening when your partner speaks is a powerful act of love. Put away distractions and focus on understanding them, repeating bac...

Courtship is not a casual stage you enter into simply because you feel a strong attraction to someone. Attraction can be powerful, but it is not enough to sustain a relationship that is leading toward marriage. Courtship is a private and intentional phase where two people seriously consider if they are truly compatible for a lifelong union. It goes beyond feelings; it demands clarity of purpose, mutual values, and the maturity to see beyond the excitement of new love. Rushing into courtship because of feelings alone is like building a house on sand—it may look fine at first, but it won’t withstand the test of time. Before stepping into courtship, it is vital to know and understand the person you are dating. Dating is the phase for observation, conversation, and learning about each other’s priorities, vision, and character. It’s where you ask questions and pay attention to how they treat others, how they handle challenges, and what they truly believe in. It is unwise to enter courtship ...

In today’s culture where emotions often lead and convictions take the backseat, many singles and youths find themselves entangled in relationships that slowly pull them away from God rather than draw them closer. It’s easy to get swept up in the excitement of romantic attention and companionship, but without clear spiritual boundaries, you may end up sacrificing your devotion, purity, and even your purpose. The truth is, who you allow into your heart can either fan the flame of your love for God or quietly quench it. Not every connection is meant to carry you forward in your spiritual journey. Some are weights, not wings. God has standards—not to restrict us, but to protect us. Maintaining spiritual boundaries means deciding ahead of time that your walk with God will not be compromised for temporary affection or unguided passion. It’s choosing prayer over pressure, purpose over pleasure, and worship over wandering emotions. When you begin to sense that a relationship is making you too ...

In a world filled with fast-paced relationships, constant online interactions, and emotional highs and lows, guarding your heart and mind has never been more important for young people. Emotional and mental boundaries are not about being distant or hard-hearted—they’re about being wise. When you invest too quickly, care too deeply without clarity, or allow others to occupy emotional space they haven't earned, you risk heartbreak, confusion, and even identity loss. God wants you to love others, but not at the cost of losing yourself. Learning to set boundaries means knowing when to say no without guilt, when to pause before getting too attached, and how to spot manipulation dressed as affection. Emotional overload happens when you carry too much for too long without checking in with your own heart. That’s why self-awareness matters—being honest about your feelings, knowing your triggers, and understanding your limits helps you remain emotionally whole. You don’t owe everyone full ac...

As a youth or single individual, it is essential to cultivate sensitivity to the unique problem God has designed you to solve in your generation. Life is not a random journey, and neither is your existence. Every person is born with a divine assignment, a specific burden that tugs at their heart more deeply than others. This burden often reveals itself through the things that disturb your peace or ignite your compassion. What angers you, what breaks your heart, what causes you to say, “Someone should do something about this”—could be a clue to your assignment. Recognizing this divine assignment is not only crucial for fulfilling your destiny but also plays a significant role in your marital journey. Your spouse is not just a lover or companion; they are meant to be a partner in purpose. If you do not know what you are called to solve or where you are sent to serve, you may align with someone who is headed in a different direction. This mismatch may lead to frustration, confusion, or de...

Your thought life plays a powerful role in shaping your actions and decisions—especially as a single person or in a premarital relationship. What you dwell on influences how you see yourself, your partner, and the future you’re building together. That’s why God calls you to have a mind centered on Christ. Philippians 4:8 says, “Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things.” When you allow your thoughts to align with God’s truth, you protect your heart and maintain a healthy perspective on love and commitment. Guarding your mind starts with being intentional. First, prioritize prayer—invite God into your thoughts and ask Him to reveal any unhealthy patterns. When insecurities or temptations arise, take them to Him. 2 Corinthians 10:5 reminds us to “take captive every thought to make it obedient to Christ.” Second, fill you...

In a world where love is often defined by feelings and convenience, it’s easy to adopt a view on relationships that drifts away from God’s design. But as a believer, your understanding of love and commitment should be rooted in Scripture, not popular culture. Consistent meditation on God’s Word has the power to reshape your heart and mind, aligning your desires with His truth. When you allow the Bible to be your foundation, it strengthens your ability to love with patience, purity, and purpose. Are you letting the world define how you approach relationships, or are you allowing God’s Word to guide your heart? Spending intentional time in Scripture helps you see that love is not just about emotions but about a covenant rooted in faithfulness and sacrifice. Verses like 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 reveal love as patient and kind, while Ephesians 5:25 calls for a love that mirrors Christ’s sacrificial love for the church. When you consistently meditate on these truths, they challenge worldly mind...

In the journey of being single or preparing for marriage, it is easy to carry worldly mindsets that can damage relationships if left unchecked. These mindsets often stem from the values of the world rather than the truth of God's Word. Selfishness, for example, causes you to prioritize your own desires over the needs of your partner, making it difficult to build a selfless and loving relationship. Fear can make you suspicious, insecure, or hesitant to trust, preventing genuine intimacy. Pride may keep you from admitting mistakes or seeking forgiveness, while gossiping and lying break the foundation of trust. These patterns are not just harmful to your relationships—they also distance you from living in the fullness of God's purpose for your life. Romans 12:2 reminds us, "Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind," urging you to let go of these unhealthy mindsets and allow God to reshape your thoughts. Surrendering the...

Your thoughts are more powerful than you realize—they shape how you see yourself, how you view others, and ultimately, how you approach relationships. Every relationship you engage in is influenced by the thoughts you allow to take root in your mind. If you constantly dwell on fears of being alone or thoughts like “I’m not enough,” it’s easy to settle for relationships that don’t reflect God’s best for you. On the other hand, when your mind is filled with what is true, noble, and pure—like Philippians 4:8 encourages—you begin to make choices that honor both yourself and God. What you think about consistently becomes the foundation for how you give and receive love. Are your thoughts leading you toward relationships grounded in truth and purpose, or are they pulling you into spaces that compromise your values? It’s easy to be swept away by the world’s ideas of love—where attraction and feelings are everything—but God’s design for relationships is deeper and more intentional. Your though...

Cohabitation before marriage has become increasingly common in today's world, but does that make it right in the sight of God? Many argue that living together before marriage helps couples understand each other better, but this mindset disregards the foundation of godly relationships. Hebrews 13:4 clearly states, "Marriage is honorable among all, and the bed undefiled; but fornicators and adulterers God will judge." When a man and woman choose to live together outside of marriage, they dishonor the sanctity of marriage and invite unnecessary temptations that can lead to sin. If God intended for marriage to be a covenant before cohabitation, why do many believers compromise His standard? For a woman, cohabiting with a man before marriage is a direct attack on her dignity and self-worth. Proverbs 31:10 says, "Who can find a virtuous woman? For her price is far above rubies." A lady who moves in with a man before marriage gives away the honor that should be preserv...

Have you ever felt like you’re falling behind in love? Watching others enter relationships, get engaged, or even marry while you’re still waiting can be frustrating. It can make you question whether God is listening to your prayers or if something is wrong with you. But what if your waiting season isn’t a delay—but divine preparation? Ecclesiastes 3:1 says, “There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under the heavens.” If there is a time for everything, doesn’t that mean there is also a time for love—a time set by God, not by pressure or comparison? The world often teaches us to follow emotions, date early, and rush into relationships based on personal desires. But God’s timing is different. He sees the bigger picture of your life—your emotional readiness, your purpose, your calling. His plan is never to delay you but to prepare you for something greater. Have you ever considered that God’s “not yet” could be His way of protecting you? That He might be...

Have you ever found yourself wondering, “How do I know if this person is God’s choice for me?” It’s a question that tugs at the heart, especially when emotions are involved. The truth is, discerning God’s will in relationships isn’t always about hearing an audible voice or seeing flashing signs. Often, it’s in the stillness of your heart where God speaks the loudest. Philippians 4:6-7 reminds us not to be anxious about anything but to present our requests to God through prayer and supplication. In that space of honest prayer, God’s peace, which surpasses all understanding, acts as a gentle guide. Have you paused long enough to sense that peace, or are you too distracted by your own expectations? One of the ways God confirms His will is through a consistent sense of peace, wise counsel from godly mentors, and alignment with His Word. Peace doesn’t mean the absence of challenges, but rather a deep, unshakable calm in the midst of uncertainty. Romans 12:2 encourages us not to ...

When it comes to dating as a believer, the key question isn’t just “How do I find the right person?” but rather, “How do I honor God while dating?” This shifts the focus from seeking personal satisfaction to living in alignment with God’s purpose for your life. Dating is not separate from your faith journey—it’s an integral part of it. Every conversation, connection, and commitment has the potential to either draw you closer to God or distract you from Him. That’s why setting boundaries in dating isn’t about limiting your freedom; it’s about protecting what’s sacred—your heart, your purity, and your purpose. Boundaries are essential because they help you navigate the emotional, spiritual, and physical aspects of a relationship with wisdom and intentionality. Emotionally, it’s easy to get attached quickly when you’re swept up in the excitement of someone new. You start sharing deep parts of your heart, sometimes too soon, creating emotional bonds that can cloud your judgment...

Every individual, including you, carries a unique mix of assets and liabilities into a premarital relationship. Your assets may be your strengths, virtues, talents, or resources, while your liabilities could be your weaknesses, limitations, or unresolved struggles. This truth is humbling and empowering because it reminds us that no one is perfect and that relationships are designed to reflect God's principle of mutual support and completion. As Romans 12:4-5 teaches, “For just as each of us has one body with many members, and these members do not all have the same function, so in Christ we, though many, form one body, and each member belongs to all the others.” Your relationship should mirror this divine interconnectedness. When you enter a premarital relationship, it is important to recognize not only your partner's liabilities but also the assets they bring to the table. Are they kind-hearted, patient, or great at managing time? Do they possess spiritual maturity,...