What does it mean to avoid time wasters in your single and dating season? It means recognizing the people, habits, and distractions that pull your attention away from growth and purpose. Social media, unhealthy friendships, and endless scrolling may look harmless, but they quietly rob you of focus. Ephesians 5:15–16 reminds us to walk wisely, “redeeming the time, because the days are evil.” Your single season is not a waiting room—it’s a preparation ground. What you do with your time now determines the kind of relationship you’ll sustain later.
How do you guard your focus? By setting boundaries around your heart and attention. Limit how much of your energy goes into online comparisons, meaningless chats, or toxic company. Spend time with people who stretch your vision and draw you closer to God, not those who drain your peace. Build habits that nurture your calling—reading, praying, learning new skills, and serving others. Every distraction avoided is an investment in your destiny.
Why does this matter, and who does it concern? It concerns every single person who desires a purposeful relationship. Where it starts is in your daily choices; when it counts most is before love enters your life. If you don’t master your focus while single, you’ll struggle to stay grounded when emotions come. Avoiding time wasters isn’t about isolation—it’s about preparation. You’re not just waiting for someone; you’re becoming someone worth waiting for.
Prince Victor Matthew
Hope Expression Values You
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