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Making Time for God and Growth as Singles

In a world filled with distractions and endless noise, many singles struggle to balance their desire for love with their need for spiritual growth. Yet true wholeness begins with time spent in God’s presence. When your schedule feels tight, remember Jesus’ words in Matthew 6:33, “But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you.” You don’t find time for God—you make it.

Building a consistent life of prayer and study is not about routines but relationship. Set aside quiet moments each day to talk with God, read His Word, and reflect on your journey. It’s in these moments that clarity comes, wounds heal, and purpose becomes clearer. Your relationship with God shapes how you relate with others, guiding your emotions and decisions with wisdom.

Self-development is also a form of worship when it aligns with His will. Learn, grow, and invest in becoming the best version of yourself before seeking to merge your life with someone else’s. Proverbs 4:7 says, “Wisdom is the principal thing; therefore get wisdom: and with all thy getting get understanding.” The more you grow in God, the more ready you become to handle love His way. Balance your desire for companionship with the discipline of spiritual growth, and you’ll find that His timing is never late—it’s preparing you.

Prince Victor Matthew 

Hope Expression Values You 

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