Beloved, money is one of the quiet tests of trust in every relationship. You cannot build a godly relationship on secrecy. Financial honesty is not just about showing your bank balance—it’s about being truthful with your lifestyle, habits, and priorities. The Bible says, “Provide things honest in the sight of all men.” (Romans 12:17). Openness builds trust, while financial silence breeds suspicion.
When you are dating, honesty about money helps both of you plan wisely and avoid unrealistic expectations. Talk about how you earn, save, spend, and give. It’s not about impressing one another—it’s about understanding each other’s values. Hiding debts, exaggerating income, or pretending to live a certain way will only cause future pain. “Better is the poor who walks in his integrity than one who is perverse in his ways, though he be rich.” (Proverbs 28:6).
Financial transparency also helps you discern compatibility. If one values stewardship while the other values status, there will be tension. Being open helps both of you adjust, align, and grow together. When you can discuss money freely now, you are preparing for a marriage built on truth, not pretense.
Beloved, always remember—honesty is love in action. A relationship that hides nothing invites God’s blessing. Let your financial life be as open as your heart. Build with truth now, so your future home can stand on integrity, peace, and divine provision.
Prince Victor Matthew
Hope Expression Values You
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