Physical value in a relationship goes beyond appearance; it speaks of health, care, presentation, and discipline. What you invest in your body reflects how you value yourself and the person you are with. Why should this matter? Because your body is the temple of the Holy Spirit (1 Corinthians 6:19-20). Neglecting your physical well-being shows a lack of regard not just for yourself but for the one who will share life with you. Think about it—if you do not take care of yourself, how will you have the strength, energy, and confidence to walk through life with someone else?
How you maintain physical value is through consistent healthy habits—eating well, exercising, grooming, and dressing with respect. Who should this concern? Both men and women. The lie many believe is that only women should look attractive or men should only focus on money, but both genders have a responsibility to maintain physical value. When do you start? Not when you finally meet the person you want to marry but now, as a single. Where does this apply? Everywhere you go, because your physical presentation speaks before your words do. Remember, Daniel was noticed first by his physical discipline before his wisdom was sought after (Daniel 1:4).
Your physical value should not be worshiped, but it should be acknowledged as part of love stewardship. God made you in His image, and caring for yourself is honoring Him. A healthy, disciplined body makes you ready to serve God, your partner, and your future family without unnecessary limitations. The world may overemphasize beauty and fitness as a competition, but in Christ, it is stewardship and service. Ask yourself, are you maintaining a body that reflects God’s temple? Are you presenting yourself in a way that communicates respect for yourself and others? And are you building healthy habits today that will sustain your tomorrow?
Assessments:
1. Are you intentionally practicing habits that add to your health and physical value, or are you waiting until marriage to suddenly start?
2. Do you believe both men and women should share equal responsibility in maintaining physical value, and how does this align with your faith?
3. How does your daily presentation reflect your understanding that your body is God’s temple and a gift to your future spouse?
Hope Expression Values You
Prince Victor Matthew
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