Spiritual value in a relationship is the foundation upon which everything else stands. What is spiritual value? It is your walk with God, your obedience to His Word, and the depth of your faith in Christ. Why is it important? Because two cannot walk together except they agree (Amos 3:3). A person who does not share your spiritual convictions may pull you away from God’s plan for your life. Who should prioritize this? Both singles and those dating, because spiritual alignment determines whether your love will flourish or frustrate your destiny.
How do you build spiritual value? By staying rooted in prayer, consistent in Bible study, and committed to a local church. It also shows in your choices—whether you choose integrity over compromise, purity over pleasure, and service over selfishness. When should this start? Not after engagement or marriage but right now, while you are single. Where does this apply? In every part of your relationship, from the way you communicate, to how you handle conflicts, and even how you dream about the future. Jesus said, “Seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you” (Matthew 6:33).
Spiritual value keeps you grounded when emotions are high and life becomes unpredictable. It guards your heart against temptations, guides your decisions, and prepares you to love in a way that pleases God. A partner without spiritual depth may excite your feelings but cannot sustain your future. The question is not only, “Do they love me?” but also, “Do they love God enough to lead, support, and journey with me in His will?” Spiritual value is the oil that keeps the lamp of love burning.
Assessments:
1. Are you actively growing in prayer, Bible study, and service to God, or are you neglecting your spiritual foundation while waiting for marriage?
2. Does the person you’re interested in share the same spiritual convictions, and how does that agreement or disagreement affect your relationship?
3. How does your pursuit of God’s kingdom influence the way you love, plan, and prepare for your future in marriage?
Hope Expression Values You
Prince Victor Matthew
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