Intellectual value in a relationship is the ability to think, reason, and make wise decisions that shape your future. What is intellectual value? It is your mindset, knowledge, problem-solving skills, and the ability to grow in wisdom. Why is it important? Because love without sense will soon become a burden. A person who refuses to develop intellectually may frustrate the progress of a relationship. Who should pursue intellectual growth? Both singles and those dating, because marriage is not just about emotions but about building a life together that requires wisdom and sound judgment (Proverbs 4:7).
How do you build intellectual value? By reading books, learning new skills, asking questions, and exposing yourself to positive knowledge that sharpens your mind. When should you begin? Now, while you are single, because what you fail to build in yourself today may become a prayer point tomorrow. Where does this apply? In everyday conversations, in how you manage finances, in raising children, and in making decisions that affect your home. The story of Joseph shows that his wisdom in interpreting dreams and solving national problems made him valuable, not just his looks (Genesis 41:39).
Intellectual value helps you connect deeper with your partner beyond physical attraction. It makes your conversations meaningful, your decisions solid, and your future clearer. A relationship without intellectual growth will always feel shallow, and no matter how much love you claim, foolishness can choke it. The question is not only, “Do they make me happy?” but also, “Can we think, reason, and build together?” Remember, a sharp mind is as attractive as a beautiful face.
Assessments:
1. Are you intentionally investing in your intellectual growth, or are you relying only on emotions to sustain your future relationship?
2. Does your partner challenge you to think better, learn more, and grow, or do they drag you into complacency?
3. How are you applying wisdom and knowledge in your daily choices to prepare for a strong and balanced marriage?
Hope Expression Values You
Prince Victor Matthew
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