Bitterness is heavy baggage to carry into any relationship. Many singles and dating couples struggle because they are still holding onto past betrayals, heartbreaks, or disappointments. Colossians 3:13 teaches us to forgive as Christ forgave us. Forgiveness is not pretending the hurt never happened; it is releasing the pain so it no longer controls you.
Forgiveness is freedom—for you, not just the other person. When you refuse to forgive, you chain yourself to the hurt. This often spills into new friendships and relationships, making it hard to trust or love fully. God calls you to release those chains and walk in healing.
For youths learning about love, forgiveness is one of the strongest signs of maturity. It shows that you are not defined by what others did to you but by how Christ has healed you. Forgiveness opens the door for peace, restoration, and healthier relationships.
Bitterness poisons the heart, but forgiveness cleanses it. Choosing to forgive is choosing to live free. Even when the apology never comes, you can still decide to let go and walk in the peace that Christ offers.
Assessment:
Am I carrying grudges that weigh down my relationships?
Do I remind myself how freely Christ forgave me when it feels hard to forgive?
Am I willing to release bitterness, even when the other person doesn’t apologize?
Prince Victor Matthew
Hope Expression Values You
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