Every person carries something sacred within—a gift, a passion, a calling that whispers of God’s design. Yet, many singles spend years searching for who to marry without first discovering who they truly are. Your uniqueness is not random; it’s a roadmap to your purpose.
Paul reminded Timothy, “Neglect not the gift that is in thee” (1 Timothy 4:14). That means the discovery of purpose begins with paying attention to what God already placed inside you. What excites you when others are tired? What problem do you naturally feel burdened to solve? Those are not coincidences—they’re signals of your divine assignment.
Until you understand your purpose, you’ll keep mistaking compatibility for destiny. Someone may look perfect for your emotions but be wrong for your calling. Purpose gives love direction. It keeps you from settling for anyone who only loves your presence but doesn’t support your assignment.
So before seeking a relationship, spend time knowing your Creator and understanding how He wired you. In that clarity, your self-worth becomes anchored, and your choices become wiser. You’ll realize you were not created to impress the world but to express Christ through what He has placed in you.
Prince Victor Matthew
Hope Expression Values You
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