Beloved, desiring a relationship or marriage is natural, but God calls us to examine the heart behind that desire. Many singles focus on filling a void or satisfying emotions, forgetting that a God-honoring union requires preparation. Scripture reminds us, “For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans for welfare and not for evil, to give you a future and a hope” (Jeremiah 29:11). Before seeking a spouse, take time to grow spiritually, emotionally, and mentally so that your future marriage reflects God’s glory.
Preparation means becoming the person God wants you to be before bringing someone else into your life. It’s not just about readiness to be loved, but readiness to love selflessly, lead faithfully, and support your partner’s God-given purpose. As a single, invest in your personal growth, discover your calling, and ensure your life is aligned with Christ. A marriage that glorifies Jesus is built on individuals who are whole in Him first.
Dating without preparation often leads to repeated heartbreak or compromise. But when you intentionally prepare, your relationships become training grounds for patience, understanding, and discernment. Ask God daily for guidance in knowing whether your desires are aligned with His purpose for your life. The goal is not just a relationship but a partnership that reflects Christ’s love.
Remember, God wants your union to be a testimony, not just a fulfillment of desire. Your preparation is an act of worship, and your patience in His timing is a reflection of trust. By becoming the person He has called you to be, you lay a foundation for a marriage that honors Him above all.
Prince Victor Matthew
Hope Expression Values You
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