Desiring a relationship often begins with “What can this person do for me?” but becoming a husband or wife means asking, “How can I serve this person and honor God in this union?” Scripture reminds us, “Do nothing from selfish ambition or conceit, but in humility count others more significant than yourselves” (Philippians 2:3). Singles must cultivate a servant-hearted attitude, learning to put love, sacrifice, and humility above personal satisfaction.
True preparation for marriage involves growing in empathy, patience, and generosity. It is not about finding someone to complete you but about being complete in Christ so you can complement another in love and purpose. Each act of selfless love now prepares you for the covenant relationship that glorifies Jesus.
Many singles struggle because they pursue relationships for personal gain—companionship, status, or fulfillment. But God calls you to pursue a partner in alignment with His kingdom, someone you can uplift, encourage, and walk with in purpose. Your growth in servant-heartedness is a mirror of Christ’s love and an essential prerequisite for a God-centered marriage.
By living selflessly now, singles build the character necessary to honor God and support a spouse. Jesus is glorified when couples enter marriage not for personal benefit but to reflect His sacrificial love to the world.
Prince Victor Matthew
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