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Single But Blessed

Just like raining season is not an evil thing....dry season is not an evil thing.

In other words, there is nothing wrong being single. There is a time to be single and the stage of Singlehood has alot of benefits that most people do not know.

What people call loneliness... Others call privacy.

What some people call isolation...some people call it time of Preparation and aligning priorities.

There are things expected of you to learn, understand and achieve in your single stage.

As single, you should be able to discover your self...talent, capacity, purpose, vision and calling.

As  single, you should learn discipline and order. You should be able to separate necessity from ENTICEMENT.

As single, you should be able to be responsible, accountable to God and people God has placed over you....for how you talk and treat people.

You should be able to cultivate a personal prayer alter, personal bible study life, and personal relationship with the Holy Spirit through Gods word...

Lot more is expected of you during Singlehood. Stop running and jumping off Singlehood and allow the purpose of Singlehood to play its role.

Being single is not a curse and being in a relationship without the understanding of relationship is worst than being single.

Don't be a single in ignorance. Be single yet wise with clear direction in life according to the inspiration of Gods word.

Be a single that is fully submitted to the Holy Spirit and Gods Word in all things.

You are highly favoured.
Being single is an opportunity.
Being single is a treasure.
Being single is a seed.

Let the wisdom of the Holy Spirit guild you.

HOPE EXPRESSION celebrates you.

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