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Ladies! Be Decisive

As a daughter of God,
You must learn to be decisive in all you do. Give more attention to your self and be sure to understand what you need.
You can understand what you need through your understanding of what Gods word is saying to you. Let your yes be yes and let your no be no.

Don't accommodate what you won't accept and don't toil or play with what you actually need.
When that man ask you out, let your maturity display by been firm with your decision. If you are not sure, tell him to give you some time to think and pray about it. And make sure you really do take your time to think and pray about it.

Wise ladies invest their time in making decisions and finding their real direction in life through Gods word. Stop wasting your time by playing hard to get or displaying your insecurity by ignoring calls, text messages or any form of communication with a man simply because you know, he is interested in you.

A man been interested in you for friendship, dating or marriage is a gift of trust God gives to you...waiting and watching to see how you will display your maturity through the way you treat and talk to him.

Whatsoever you do or say to any man interested in you for relationship, friendship or marriage.....is first unto God before the man even get to experience it.
The way a man ask you out, and the way you respond to him asking you out, are both worship unto God.

Directly or indirectly, God wants to be involved in all you think, do and say...so do all you can to give God pleasure in every little or big situation that crosses your path.

You are a Godly lady and  its time people experience this truth in every phase and sides of life.

HOPE EXPRESSION celebrates you.
#PrinceVictorMatthew

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