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Desire Is Not Enough

I want you to understand that you can never separate your walk with God with that of your emotional Relationship. They must flow and function together. You can not hold on to one and leave one.

Your spiritual walk with God is the foundation for any kind of friendship or Relationship you want to cultivate.

God will never give you a healthy relationship. God gives you his word and tells you to cultivate a healthy relationship with your self and people. What you are looking for in a man or lady does not exist, cultivate and build it.

Whatsoever you see around was built or invented or created by some one. What you don't build, you can't own. What you don't cultivate, you can't enjoy. All the things that belong to God today were things he created.

Don't just desire a Godly marriage for your future. It's time to start build the right mentality and attitude or approach to the kind of marriage you expect in Future.

Build your self for the kind of the future you desire. Invest into people, the same thing you expect from them. Invest in your self the same thing God expects from you.

If you want a truthful partner, be truthful to them. If you keep lying to people and desiring truthful partner, you will never achieve that kind of result.

Let your prayer for a healthy relationship be a search for getting the right wisdom you need to build your self, and build people into the kind of relationship God has promised you.

Don't just desire it, cultivate it and build it. It's a deliberate effort so, make sure you accommodate people with building mentality too.

What have you been cultivating?

What have you been building?

Ask the Holy Spirit to help you.

HOPE EXPRESSION celebrates you.

#PrinceVictorMatthew

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