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I Love Sex - Part 4






LESBIAN
 
I have few female friends who were victims of this great evil and esteem killer. Some of the ladies were just curious. Some of the ladies turn to that by influences from room mate, relative, cousins and even siblings. Some became victims through them and their friends or siblings or relative taking their bath together in the same bath room. Some of them became victims through the manipulation of the devil. Some are victims because they have strong urges that they have accepted as uncontrollable. Some of them became victims as an escape from heartbreaks and men. They felt since there are hurting due to their past relationship with men, it’s wiser for them to turn to their fellow ladies for emotional or sexual satisfaction. You were not born as a female to desire emotional and sexual satisfaction from your fellow female. God did not create Eve and Juliet. He created Adam and Eve and that’s the only pattern. Whatsoever your reason might be, I want you to know that being a lesbian is not solution. 

The first step to your freedom is this; accept that this is wrong. You need to see yourself more valuable than this. You need to see to it that you deserve better. You must hate it and learn to see things through the eyes of God. I’m not saying it’s going to be easy but I am saying this is the fight for your destiny; it’s worth it. You can never do it through your own strength; ask the Holy Spirit to help. Jesus is the only way, the truth and the life that can liberate you from the evil.

I don’t care if you are a great singer in the Church or a preacher or prophetess Etc, the gift of God is without repentance. You can still be manifesting the gifts of the spirit and still dance to hell. Don’t allow manifestation or your position in the Church to deceive you.
Accept your urges and allow the Holy Spirit to help you manage and govern your urges and desires of your heart. Acknowledge that you need help and talk to God.  He is ready to help you. The Lord is ready to deal with the works of the flesh in your life. The Lord is ready to transform your life. You can’t go on living like this because you belong to Jesus and He is your Lord. The meaning of this implies that you can’t do things and live the way you choose to or see it fit. Matthew 7:7 & Romans 12:2

GAY

You were not born as a man to desire emotional and sexual satisfaction from your fellow man. God did not create Adam and Alex. He created Adam and Eve and that’s the only pattern. Whatsoever your reason might be, I want you to know that being a gay is not solution.

I have few male friends who were victims of this great evil and esteem killer. Some of the guys were just curious. Some of the guys turn to than by influences from room mate, relative, cousins and even siblings. Some became victims through them and their friends or siblings or relative taking their bath together in the same bath room. Some of them became victims through the manipulation of the devil. Some are victims because they have strong urges that they have accepted as uncontrollable. Some of them became victims as an escape heartbreaks and ladies. They felt since there are hurting due to their past relationship with ladies, it’s wiser for them to turn to their fellow man for emotional or sexual satisfaction.

I don’t care if you are a great singer in the Church or a preacher or prophet Etc, the gift of God is without repentance. You can still be manifesting the gifts of the spirit and still dance to hell. Don’t allow manifestation or your position in the Church to deceive you.
Accept your urges and allow the Holy Spirit to help you manage and govern your urges and desires of your heart. Acknowledge that you need help and talk to God.  He is ready to help you. The Lord is ready to deal with the works of the flesh in your life. The Lord is ready to transform your life. You can’t go on living like this because you belong to Jesus and He is your Lord. The meaning of this implies that you can’t do things and live the way you choose to or see it fit. Matthew 7:7 & Romans 12:2

RAPE

This is one of the situations that have destroyed the self esteem of a lot of youths, teenagers and adult. The event can be over and years gone but the memory always have a way of reliving the event. If you have been a victim of rape, I want to tell you that you are not worthless and the fear of “who will accept and treasure” are fake. You are so amazing and you mean a lot to God. Jesus loves you to so much and he is aware of what you’ve been through for the pass days, weeks, months or year. You need to embrace the acceptance of God irrespective of the pressure and pain the rape has created in your heart. I need you to turn to Jesus to heal your heart. I want you to make a conscious decision to live in the present and focus on your dreams.

As victim of rape, Jesus is willing to pick you up, he will hold your hands and he will ease your pain – so you can rise again, trust again, love again and also have a good self esteem.
Any side effect the rape has caused to your emotions or life – Jesus is willing and he is available to fix you and complete you. God’s grace has found you. Rise up for the guilt, shame, and Unforgiveness. Forgive your self for the Lord has forgiven you. Forgive the man or lady that raped you just like Christ has forgiven you of your own faults and mistakes. Vengeance is of the Lord. Take no vengeance for your self for the Lord will fight for you and you will be comforted.

Don’t let the rape experience you had force you to reject or hate your sexual urge or the ideal of sex. You were raped (that was bad) but it doesn’t mean sex itself is a bad thing; their approach was immature. Any man or lady that rapes any body irrespective of his or her age – they are immature and weaklings (they need help).

If you are the person that rapes people (either you are a male or female) this is a sign of insecurity, immaturity and irresponsibility on your side. You have no respect for your self, you lack self esteem, and you have no dignity. You are an abuser because rape is an emotional abuse. This is an abuse to your self, to your parents and God because your parents and God did not train you to become an abuser that keeps raping people. God did not invest his love on you this much so you can be victimizing people by raping them. You are malfunctioning and this is not the type of person God has created you to be. You can stop this abuse of raping people if only you turn to Jesus for help.

These have to stop and must stop today! Whosoever that is encouraging and supporting you to be abusing people (male or female) is really against your destiny. This respect your friends or fans give to you because you have always succeeded in raping any of your targets is a fake respect. It’s an abuse to your destiny, the capacity of your potential or your purpose for existence.

There is no glory in putting tears in people’s eyes by raping them. You were created to add value to people’s lives. You were created as a Shepard (protector), you were not created as a hunter that hunter and destroy the smiles, love, completeness, and confidence in people by raping them.

Brothers, stop RAPING your sisters, step sister, house girl, relative, students, staffs, innocent teenagers…etc.

Sisters, stop the RAPING your brothers or relatives, house boy, students, staffs, innocent teenager…etc.

Fathers, stop RAPING your own children or step children, house girl, relatives, student, staffs, daughter in-law, sister in-law…etc?,

Mothers, stop RAPING your own children or step children, house boy, gate man, relatives, student, staffs, daughter in-law, sister in-law…etc.

Prophets, Pastors, Spiritual Leaders, Secular Leaders, Officers, Lecturers… and whosoever you are, I bring you good news; YOU HAVE TO STOP THE RAPE! You were not created as a RAPIST. The rape is not the will of God for you. Stop victimizing these people. You are meant to protect them and not take advantage of them. Don’t accept to be an agent for the devil and sin. The Holy Spirit is ready to help you if only you ask him to help you. If you are willing, help is available for you (Grace).

The declare the Holy Spirit will possess your heart and transform you into His Image and Nature in Jesus Name.

Jesus loves you so much.

To be continued...

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