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Dance With Me - Part 1



DANCE WITH ME
“Get the Rhythm”

Amos 3:3 – Can two walk together if they don’t agree.

You are welcome to STRETCH YOUTH SUMMIT. In this month of April, we shall be looking into a topic the Holy Spirit has instructed me to teach through His Grace. Last month (March), we looked into the issue of ‘I LOVE YOU’ and Lord was able to deal with certain issues we have been over looking. I thank the Lord because God use that seminar to liberate people from isolation, abusive relationship and reconciliation with their personal relationship with God. Praise God!

WHAT IS DANCE WITH ME?

Dance with me is all about people supporting you, and cooperating with you in other to achieve a specific goal according the expectation of God for your life. This is the process of people having regards for your priority, and values in life. This is the process of people been committed to you. This is the process of people investing in your dream. This is the process of people forgiving you. This is the process of people accepting you. This is the process of people having confidence in you. This is the process of people listening to you. This is the process of people sharing their thoughts and ideas with you… the list can go on and on…

This is what this entail but I have come to discover that in life, people are good in shifting blames and accusation on people for their own failure. They will never talk full responsibility for their own faults or mistakes. If you are in this position, you need to repent and trust Jesus to transform you

I would like to establish this; every thing in life and in creation was set to flow in a certain way. There are principles to be obeyed and you must be ready to dance.

I want to bring to your notice that God did not create you any how and he did not create you out of pity. God consciously created you with specifications and pattern that is attached to His Plan and purpose. In other words, life is all about dancing. Dancing is all about setting the balance. Setting the balance is all about you discovering, understanding and flowing with the Rhythm (your purpose & vision in Christ).

Relationship and friendship is all about dancing. The first responsibility you have as a person is you learning to understand your Rhythm and dance with your self. You must learn how to dance with yourself but before you do, you must discover you (Purpose & Vision in Christ). You must understand you (Purpose & Vision in Christ). You must master or get used to your Rhythm (Purpose & Vision in Christ).

Here is the starting point, without a personal relationship with God – you will never be able to discover YOU. You were created out of God and your bible contains the details of how your life should be. God is the one that invented the song, the Rhythm and the dance.

To be continued... 

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