MASTURBATION
The deception of the
devil or sin to you is so bad. Masturbation is never a good opportunity to
escape your sexual urge. I need you to understand this; you create more damage
to your sexual urge or pattern of fulfillment when you settle for masturbation.
Yes it true that no body will know it and you will be relieved but the damage
it does to your mindset and self esteem is great. There is an inner side effect
to every section of masturbation you experience. What you think about when
masturbating set the capacity and expectation of your sexual satisfaction.
Masturbation creates a
false confidence that kills the value for respect. It gives you the idea you
can do without any man or lady. It even reduces your believe to see that ladies
are nothing but object for satisfying your sexual urge. You will totally loose
interest for friendship with the opposite gender. You will not like the idea of
doing things together with the opposite gender… things like your talent,
creativity and you will end up becoming rude and impatient with the opposite
sex. It also kills your ability to apologize to the opposite gender. It gives
you a wrong impression, making you believe that since you are not having sex
with the opposite gender, you are better than those who are having sex with the
opposite sex (self righteousness). It also makes you feel that you are in control
– “you can satisfy your self any time,
any day, and any how without any body’s approval.” But the truth is; you are salve, irresponsible, and a weakling.
Masturbation reduces or
destroys your value for romance and sex – making you to be selfish and so insensitive
to people because you feel you need no body.
The first step to be
free from it is; you must accept that you need help. You must accept the fact
that you have believed the lies of the devil all this time. You must develop
hatred for masturbation as you choose to see it as your enemy and killer of
your self worth. You must loose interest in it; if you can conquer it in your
mind, you can conquer the act. Stop making excuses for masturbating. Stop
seeing reasons why you should masturbate and understand that this is not how
God designed you to function.
Any body that is a
slave to masturbation is directly or indirectly connected to pornography.
PORNOGRAPHY
Some people are victims
of this by accident and some people are victims of this by curiosity. In any
way, I want you to understand that all that you have seen in the pornography
are misconceptions of what God has already design sex to be. All you see when
you watch pornography is disrespect for men, ladies, and object for
pleasure. They are so insensitive and
even thou some of the acting up is real; it gives you a fake picture of sex.
This keeps you in
bondage because either you are having sex before marriage or in marriage; you
keep having the picture and voice of the man or the lady you saw in the porn
video. Imagine you been enslave to some one you will never met. It makes you the jailer of your own prison.
Directly or indirectly,
you will be enslaved to the porn videos or pictures. You are doing your self
more harm. This is not for the singles alone, even if you are married: you have
no right to depend on porn videos or picture for your sexual expression to your
wife or husband. Stop punishing the lady or man to fit into what you saw in the
porn video or picture. Be your self and be creative in your unique way. To the
married couples, the Holy Spirit is able and willing to help you to be more
creativity in every thing including sex. You have an excellent spirit in you
and you are better than the porn videos and pictures.
Singles help your self
through abstaining from porn videos and pictures. Do your best through the
Grace of the Lord to abstain from sex till your wedding night. I need you to
know that obeying this instruction is for your own good. There are two options
here, you either learn or you suffer (enjoy
or endure).
You can be free but you
must come to understand that there is some thing wrong with porn videos and
pictures. You must decide to release your self from the mental imprisonment.
The naked ladies and guys you have store up in your mind through porn videos
and picture must be erased. You can only start erasing when you choose to stop
feeding your mind with porn videos and picture. Since you choose not to believe
the lies porn videos and pictures are telling you, you must replace with a
better information (God’s word) – Romans 12:2.
Instead of you
allowing porn videos and picture to enslave your mind, you can be creativity in
a positive way with that same mind. You can focus on your dreams and personal
relationship with God. Enough of the lies of the devil; you need help.
May the Holy Spirit posses your heart and help you to overcome masturbation and the watch of porn videos in Jesus Name.
Jesus loves you so much.
To be continued...
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