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Be Single But Don't Be Stupid

Relationship is a tool and platform for maintaining, sustaining and deploying of dreams or purpose.

Relationship is a tool and platform for learning, discovering and development your capacity, potentials, ideas and dream.

Relationship is a tool and platform for participating in adding value to others and in receiving value from others.

Being single is not a curse but an opportunity to discover your self and explore your dream.

Being single is a season. There is a time to be single and there is a time for dating. Don't pursue your dream to the extreme and abandon the need for dating.

Dating is a necessity and a pleasure. If you can't cultivate a healthy life as a single, dating will frustrate you.

Be single and be productive. Be single and be result oriented. Be single and develop your capacity. Be single and understand your direction in life. Be single and Specific about your reason for existence.

You are unique and you must dare to be different. Learn to stay where God has ordained for you. You are not suppose to be everything. You are not suppose to be everywhere. You are not suppose to be doing everything. Be specific about your self and approach to life, even as a single man or lady.

Don't put your life and dream on a hold, waiting for dating or marriage to fix your life. Even as a single man or lady, take full responsibility of your own dream.

Pay attention to understand the seasons of your life. Ask the Holy Spirit to instruct you on the timing right to ask this lady out. Ask the Holy Spirit to instruct you on how to respond to this man asking you for a relationship.

What you refuse to deal with a single and whatsoever you refuse to learn, unlearn, or stop as a single, will either fight you in dating/marriage or it will assist you. It's time to rise to become the kind of single God has created you to become.

Planning to double date or double dating is an active rehearsal for practicing adultery in future/marriage.

As these expensive jokes you enjoy doing, hurting people unnecessary, if you don't stop it now, that's the same expensive joke that will scatter your marriage or relationship.

Stop deceiving your self with being indirect or testing people yet acting Innocent. People might not tell you but some people can see through you. This is why you notice people enjoy avoiding you.

The productivity or lack of being productive in your life as a single is a direction description of what you will display in marriage or dating. The wedding grown or suit will not transform you, it will only reveal who you've already become as a single.

The best time to build your legacy as an individual is during your single stage. The foundation you can't lay for yourself as a single, will become very difficult to build in dating or Marriage.

Believe people in their days of little beginning. Stop waiting for them to rise into glory before you identify with them. Be careful of who you despise today, cos you might need them tomorrow.

Be single but don't be stupid and inconsiderate.

Prince Victor Matthew
Hope Expression Hub 
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Chiamaka Okoroigwe said…
Thank you Sir
This is insightful
February 25, 2023 at 7:56 AM
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