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My First Love - Part 4



You must embrace the truth today. This is the day you should start patterning your lifestyle according to God’s word. This is your first love and this is where your dignity dwells.

It’s time for you to return back to how you use to be more devoted to the studying of your bible. It’s time for you to return back to the days when the Holy Spirit use to dictate your living. It’s time for you to return back to the days you use to seek after the understanding of God’s plan. It’s time for you to relate with the Holy Spirit just as you use to do when you first believed. It’s time for you to return back to your personal relationship with God. It is time for you to return back to the very instruction God gave to you. It is time for you to return to the word of God and make it your priority.

-          Make the word of God as your priority.

-          Make God’s instruction your priority.

-          Make your personal relationship God your first priority.

-          Allow the way God relates with you dictates how you ought to relate with the people around you.

-          Learn to allow the way God relates with you to dictates your desires, decisions and expectations.

-          Don’t allow the opinion of people to take the place of God’s instruction in your life.
-          Studying and meditating on God’s word is the way forward.

-          Allow your motive to be all about knowing God and loving him.

All this is not in the hands of any pastor or any Church. It is free of charge to you if only you choose to believe.

Stop searching for who you will date as a man and stop searching for who will date you as a lady. Your first responsibility dwells in you embracing your first love. It is the responsibility to dictate your foot steps, decisions, desires and expectations.

The “foot steps” stands for desires, decision, expectations or plan. The foot steps of the righteous (you) are ordered or directed by the Lord.

In other words, your first love is what ought to direct your foot steps (desires, decisions and expectations)

I can not teach you every thing this topic entails. I hereby hand you over to the Holy Spirit to teach and direct you in the way to go about this issue.

May the Holy Spirit open the eyes of your understanding concerning the way you should think, decide, desire and behave in Jesus Name (Amen)

Jesus loves you so much.

Jesus is your HOPE!
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