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Dance With Me - Part 3



 We have four types of people;

-         People that lack the discovery, the learning and understanding of their song.
-         People that have discovered their song but do not want to learn it.
-         People that have discovered, and learnt their song but lack the understanding of their song.
-         People that have discovered, learnt and understood their song.

Any stage you are now, it is your responsibility to allow the Holy Spirit to help you. You have no excuse.

You discovering, learning and understanding your song is the reason why Jesus came to redeem you. It is what determines the value of God’s covenant, Grace and Truth released to you. This is the only reason why you have been blessed from your mother’s womb. This is what qualifies your name to be written in the book of life.

Instead of you allowing the songs of the people around you to intimidate you; find your own song. You don’t have to compare your life with any body. You don’t have to compete with any body. You don’t have to frustrate another person because of your insecurity.

Find your song!

Discover your song!

-         WHAT’S YOUR RHYTHM?

YOUR RHYTHM IS YOUR PUROSE AND VISION IN CHRIST. You must know your rhythm, understand it and exploit it. You must find your Rhythm. Our God is not a disorganized God. Love is not disorganized. Relationship and friendship is not meant to be disorganized. Love, life and relationship is established and built via principles; principles that are fashioned through individual song and rhythm. You can discover love or identify love and God has filled His love in your heart (Romans 5:5) – but it’s still another thing for you to know how to share that love to the people around you according to their individual differences.

People can not just decide what love should be to you. You can’t just decide what love should mean to the people around you. You can’t just decide how to treat people right and people can’t just decide how to treat you right. Orderliness must have its own place because God’s kingdom is established and built through principles and principles must determine what we must see, think, decide and do.

Finding rhythm is a two phase duty. You must find your own rhythm and you must find the rhythm of other people (I will detail more on finding people’s rhythm in my upcoming seminar ‘the constitution of love’). Let us focus on you finding you own rhythm. Every individual should be responsible for finding their own rhythm.

As long and heaven and earth remain, there is rhythm for doing every thing. There is a rhythm doctors, pastor, husband, wife, prophet, lawyers, lecturers… uses in dancing in their field or place of duty. Any thing outside the specified rhythm set for them by God, the expected result will not be achieved. In other for you to get the desired result, you must get the rhythm right. Once you miss the rhythm, you will fail irrespective of how dedicated, disciplined and truthful you might be.

Get the song right and get the rhythm right.

Your song and rhythm can only be found in your personal relationship with the Holy Spirit through God’s Word. There is no any other way forward than this.

To be continued...
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