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My First Love - Part 3



God put Adam into a deep sleep, took his rib and MADE the woman. God had to put the man in a deep sleep because God respected the privacy of the lady. No human knows every thing about your life because when God MADE you, it was just you and God alone.

As a lady, I want you to know that God MADE you. You were MADE because there was a specification, pattern and timing attached to your life. You are not for every thing and for every body. You are not meant to do every thing.

God consciously MADE you. You were MADE according to the capacity of the HELP God created you to be this generation. You were MADE in the nature of a specific HELP God MADE you to offer to your generation.

You were MADE to love and be loved in return. You were MADE to respect and be respect in return. You were MADE to accept people and be accepted in return. You were MADE to value people and be valued in returned. You were MADE to celebrate people and be celebrated in return.

You were MADE to discover, prepare and become the Help you were born to be to your generation. You will never know all these if you don’t acknowledge and embrace your first love.

God is the ‘FIRST LOVE’ of every lady.

After God MADE the Eve, the first person the Eve saw was God. The first person Eve submitted to was God. The first person Eve had a relationship with was God. The first that loved Eve was God. The first person that became sensitive to her was God. The first person that knew and understood her was God. The first person that helped Eve was God. Eve’s first experience for every thing is God. God was her first love.

As a lady; the first person to be loyal and obedient to is God. When God presented Eve to Adam, she did not question God but trusted Him. And when Adam said, this is the bone of my bone and flesh of my flesh and she shall be called woman. Eve did not argue with Adam. Eve was loyal to Adam because she was first loyal to God.

Every thing Adam enjoyed from Eve were things Eve learnt and practiced with God. Every thing Eve enjoyed from Adam before the fall were things Adam learnt and practiced with God.
I want to take me time to write to both the men and ladies

This is how our lives should be. Either you are a man or lady; you ought to pattern your priority through your personal relationship with God.

This is what the FIRST LOVE represents.

In as much as your personal relationship with God is your first love, you must also accept that God’s word and instruction is also your first love. It is impossible for you to have a personal relationship with God and disrespect his instruction. 

You can’t separate God from his word. You can’t separate God from his instruction. God and his word or instructions are one.

To be continued...
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