The first love of any
man is not his mum, sister, father, lady or any material thing. What ought to
be the first love of any man is God (Personal Relationship with God).
It will become easier
for any man to learn how to trust, love, respect, listen and communicate
effectively when they acknowledge and submit to their first love. Your values
and priority as a man ought to be defined by your first love.
As a man, how do you relate with people? It’s by you giving attention to how God relates with you. How do you learn how to forgive people? It’s by you giving attention to the way God forgave you. How do you learn how to listen to people? It’s by you giving attention to the way listens to you. How do you learn how to love? It’s by you giving attention to how God loves you.
God is your first love;
his personality and his attitude ought to define your own personality and
attitude. Your personal relationship with God is what should set the standard
for how you relate with the people around you. Your relationship with people
ought to be an extension of your personal relationship with God.
When God placed the
Adam in the Garden He prepared and told Adam to dress and keep; He revealed
Adam’s purpose to him. God is the only person that can reveal your purpose to
you.
God prepared the Garden
before he placed Adam. God alone is the one that has planned your days and
seasons. This reflects all you need in life has been prepared before you were
born.
God brought the animals
for Adam to give names. This translates the fact that you have the capacity to
handle any responsibility God presents before you.
If you acknowledge God
as your first love, and understand how to relate with him, you will be able to
recognize your destiny and your wife.
LADIES
I
want to take this time to write to the ladies.
Before the creation and
formation of Eve, God had a clear picture of what He wanted. Being a lady is
not the factor of accident or mistake. You are a lady because God consciously
decide to make you a lady.
Understanding the power
and purpose of a woman lies in you learning to relate and understand your first
love.
Your first love is NOT the function of your first date,
first boy friend, you mum, your dad, your brother or any material thing.
Your first love is a
system and flow of life that can be traced back to the scriptures. Let us take a walk in this revelation.
Before Eve was created,
responsibility called forth the necessity of Eve’s existence. Her existence
came as a result of the work that was on ground.
As a lady, you must understand
that what validates the beauty for existence is the fact that you were created
to shoulder a responsibility.
God looked at Adam and
saw he needed HELP so God thought of
creating Eve. God did not create you to compete with the man. God created the lady to
compliment the effort of the man.
To be continued...
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