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Dance With Me - Part 4



Once again, your rhythm is your purpose and vision in Christ. The discovering and understanding of your purpose and vision is what will determine the rhythm and dance.
Your SONG is what will determine your RHYTHM and the RHYTHM is what will determine the DANCE.

Your CALLING and PURPOSE in Christ is what will determine your VISION and your VISION is what will determine your RELATIONSHIP, MINISTRY, LIFESTYLE OR BUSINESS.

Your values, priority, and goals in your relationship with the people around you or with your spouse to be must be tailored after your calling, purpose, and vision in Christ

Before you ask people to dance with you, be sure they know and understand your song, and rhythm. In the same light, I have discovered that a lot of people do not know how to dance neither do they understand their own rhythm. This makes it more difficult for people who even understand their song and rhythm to dance with them.
The only platform for people to know your song, rhythm and the way to dance with you is going to be through FRIENDSHIP.

If you want to dance with a fish, be ready to reside in the ocean. If you want to dance with a lion, be ready to reside in the jungle. If you want to dance with an eagle, be ready to soar in the sky.

Don’t compromise your own priority just because you want to dance with some one. Don’t ignore your self development because you want to dance with some one. Don’t impress any body or live in debt because you want to dance with some one. The opportunity will naturally come before but before it does, be ready to sing the song and dance according to their rhythm. If you can’t dance to their rhythm, then walk away. If he or she can’t dance to your rhythm, let him or her go. Just let it go. Don’t let the fear of isolation or your insecurity to stop you. Your true worth is in your song and rhythm. The people God has assign for your life will stick with you, sing your song and dance with you according to your rhythm in Christ.

Stop the complaining “no body likes me” and get your rhythm right. It’s not all about how people have despised you, get your rhythm right. People are free to lie against you, mock you, accuse you, and even insult you (it’s their own world). But as for you, focus on knowing your song, and understanding your rhythm because it’s time to dance.

A lot have given up on you. Many people have abused you emotionally. The lady rejected the proposal. The guy called off the engagement. Your project was turn down. You had one disappointment here and there. All these and even some things I did not write here are meant to work together for your good. (Romans 8:28). These issues surrounding you are not your problem. The necessity is, know your song, understand your rhythm and get ready to dance.

As long as it’s not yet time to dance, keep on singing your song to your self and keep dancing with your self. You can’t set your life on a hold because there is not one to dance with you. If there is no one to dance with you; dance with your self. If there is no one to dance with you, dance with the Holy Spirit. 

To be continued....

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