Common ground is the way forward. For us to be able to walk together, I must come to a place of understand and respect your world, you must come to understand and respect my word and we must understand our individual needs. If what I need compliments and is compatible with what you need, there will be a big chance for us to walk together. To find the common ground between your self and the people around you, you must answer this question; what I’m really looking for in this life? Your world must be in search for some thing and my world must be in search for some thing. Identifying my needs helps me to know those that can feed my needs. Identifying your needs helps you to know those that can feed your needs. What is a NEED? A need is a necessity that I lack. A need can also be some thing that I have but needs some one who understands what I have; in other for that person to enjoy what I have with me. This is the function of some thing I lack and MUST gain or some thi...