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You Vs. Yourself - Part 5

Genesis 3:7 – There are lots of things we use as a covering or mask. This covering up comes in attitude and in material things and I want to explain them one after the other. Every one is connected in one way or the other to this covering up.

SHIFTING BLAMES: This is act of point fingers at people and holding people responsible for your own carelessness and mistakes. This is one the attitude we use to cover up our own insecurity and low self esteem. This is all about us blaming every body for our own faults and mistakes; using them as your justified excuses for making your mistakes. This is the act of irresponsibility and lack of accountability of your words, decision and attitude. 

ACCUSING: This is the act of you criticizing and condemning people for your own carelessness and mistakes; using them as your justified excuse for making mistakes. This is one of the attitudes we use for cover up our short coming. This is the act of irresponsibility and lack of accountability of your words, decision and attitude. This is a disease among believers.

FAULTS FINDING: This is the act of searching for what people will say or do to justify them guilty for your own short coming. This is the act of irresponsibility and lack of accountability of your words, decision and attitude. This is a disease among believers.

SELF JUSTIFICATION: This is the act of you justifying your faults as not guilty. This is an act of you making others look bad in other for you to appear good before people. This is the act of irresponsibility and lack of accountability of your words, decision and attitude. This is a disease among believers.

DOMINEERING ATTITUDE: This is the act of you lording your self over people as a way of making your self feel secure. This is an act of you not allowing people to have a say in any matter by making them to believe you know it all and have it all. It’s another way of covering up your insecurity. This is a disease among believers.

EXCUSE: This is the act of you making even the opportunities surrounding you as an excuse for not doing what you ought to do. It’s a mindset that sees impossibility right in the midst of possibility. This is the act of been lazy by using even the least situation as an excuse for not taking up the responsibility that is expected of you. This is a disease among believers.

The worst of all is when our actions are not long motivated by Love, Grace and Truth any more. We are now motivated by our own fears, worries and doubt. We have fallen into the trap of judging people’s worth and trust with our own insecurity. We use how we feel about ourselves as a standard for judging people. We use our experiences to determine the quality of the dreams people around us own. We use our own failures as a limitation for other people. We fight the same people that love us because of our own insecurity.  We feel intimated with the help people render to use because we are still struggling to value our selves.

It’s okay to use expensive things, but do you use this expensive thing to rate your worth and value? Is your worth limited to the brand of cloths you wear? Is your worth limited to the kind of phone you use? Is your worth limited to the wealth of your love mate? Is your worth limited to the material things you have?

Matthew 11:28; Jesus gave an invitation to every body that labour (struggle) and heavy burden (pain) and I will give you rest. Jesus is available to help you today. Drop your mask and remove your covering. You don’t need to worry about what people are thinking about you or what they have said or done to you. Jesus is now your worth! Jesus is your value! Jesus is your pride! Jesus is the beauty of your perfection. Jesus is your covering! Jesus is your glory! There is no more shame, regrets and guilt because Jesus is the glory for your shame. He will turn your regrets to testimony. He will replace your guilt with his love for you.

If you have not given your life to Jesus, you need to decide now. You need to believe in your heart and confess with your mouth that Jesus is the son of the living God. Go to the nearest bible believing Church around you. Ask the Pastor to lead you to Jesus. The holy Spirit will guide you.

For further studies; please, read and study the following scriptures
Hebrews 8:12
John 15:3
Matthew 11:28
Jeremiah 29:11

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Let me pray for you.

I declare upon you today the Spirit of the living to help you in every area of your life in Jesus Name.

May the Holy Spirit usher you into a Divine Encounter with God in Jesus Name.

May the Holy Spirit help you to understand the scriptures according to his plans and purpose for your life in Jesus Name.

Whenever you open the bible to study, the Lord of Host will keep revealing himself to you in Jesus Name.

Receive freedom from every addictions and strongholds holding you bond in Jesus Name.

Any thing that is not part of God's plan for your life, ease to operate now in Jesus Name.

May the Holy Spirit transform your attitude, mindset, beliefs, manner of approach into the nature of Christ in Jesus Name.

I declare, every addiction, fear, worries, doubts, insecurity, depression and abusive relationship in your life to be broken by the power of the Holy Ghost in Jesus Name.

The Lord bless you and keep.

The Lord will establish you in his path of righteousness.

You will not fail and fall.

The Lord Jesus will establish you in His plans and purpose for your life.

The peace of the Lord will flood your heart in Jesus Name

THE WAR IS OVER!!
DEPEND ON THE RIGHTEOUSNESS OF JESUS
DEPEND ON HIS GRACE AND TRUTH
BE INSPIRED!


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