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Do you really love your self? Part 2



Love, friendship, business or any teamwork is meant to be a two sided. If you are the only person investing into the relationship, friendship, business or any teamwork – YOU ARE NOT WISE. Even God gave us His son to die for us in other for us to be reconciled back to Him. Our reconciliation to God was what God gained from His Son that he gave to die for our sake. The principle of giving and receiving is a must in the kingdom of God.

The major question life, love, relationship, friendship, marriage or business will have to ask you always is WHAT DO YOU HAVE TO OFFER?
 
The only Pillar that sustain life, love, relationship, friendship, marriage or business is GAIN (what do I stand to gain? What about me?) You need other people and other person needs you. This truth is what will make your wisdom to be balanced.

In life, friendship, marriage, relationship, and business – the only principle that works is TEAMWORK.

WHAT DOES IT MEAN TO LOVE YOUR SELF?

Loving yourself is all about you;
  1. Accepting your uniqueness.
  2.  Feeling secure about who you are and the difference between you and others
  3.  Respecting your priority in Christ irrespective of what people say, think or do to you
  4. Understanding your potential, talent or giftings.
  5.  The ability to defend your believe in Christ.
  6.  The ability to value your time (Wise usage of your time for the right course)
  7. The ability to enforce your decision through the instruction of God to you.
  8.  The ability to stand for the truth you have discovered through God’s word… irrespective of the risk involved.
  9. The ability of you respecting your feelings (conquering the act of impressing other people)
To be continued...
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