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Looking 4 Myself - Part 2

You are not a PRODUCT OF MISTAKE OR UNPLANNED EVENT. God consciously with pride formed you into your mother’s womb. He planned for you; from the start till the very second you will spend on it. He planned, prepared, provided, and secured or protected every bit of your life, time, season and all you have experienced, all you are presently experiencing and all you will experience in future. All God have created you to do and become have been decided before God formed you into your mother’s womb.

BUT God has hidden this plan. The devil, no angel, witchcraft, or any demon knows the purpose why god created you. No prophet or pastor can tell you the full detail of your purpose for existence. It is given to the Holy Spirit alone through the Scriptures to reveal to you, your purpose for existence.

Your self is your past, yourself is the present and yourself is the future. You were created to live your self. Life in itself is you. This is the pattern God created for every individual.

There are two sides to this; we have the carnal view and the Godly view.

1.      Yourself – Ambition (Carnal View)

This is the platform of you discovering and becoming what your parents, mentors, pastors and people have influenced you to do, and become. This is something that is not in line with what God has ordained for your life before he formed you in your mother’s womb. This is the concept of pride, lust, self will, desires, expectations and dreams that have nothing to do with God’s plan for your life. This has nothing to do with the desires and expectation of God for creating you. This is the projection of what humans or you have created, desired, and imagined for your self, by yourself with the absent of God’s influence. These always look good, sensible and perfect yet not godly. Some people end up being wealthy yet unfulfilled. Some relationship looks flourishing yet no peace of mind. Some people become successful yet confused. SUCCESS IS NOT A PROVE YOU ARE FULFILLING YOUR DIVINE PURPOSE. SUCCESS IS NOT A PROVE GOD IS INVOLVED. SUCCESS IS NOT A PROVE GOD IS INVOLVED.

2.      Yourself – Divine Purpose (Godly View)

This is the platform of you discovering and becoming what God has desired, and planned for your life before you were formed into your mother’s womb. This is some thing that is in line with God’s word, His calling over your life, and the assignment he has created you to accomplish here on earth. Remember, God consciously desired your existence, willingly planned for and joyfully formed you into your mother’s womb. Before you were formed into your mother’s womb, God had all the details, specifications and pattern of how your life should be and what you must do during your life time. There is a specific expectation of God behind every TALENT, every IDEA, CREATIVITY and every ATTITUDE in your life. Every good and bad attributes in your life, God placed them there. FAILURE IS NOT A PROVE YOU ARE NOT FULFILLING YOUR DIVINE PURPOSE. FAILURE IS NOT A PROVE GOD IS ABSENT.

The will of God and pleasing God is the prove that you are fulfilling your Divine Purpose.

To be continued.

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