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Looking 4 Myself - Part 3

In God’s kingdom, you don’t have a choice because all you have been created to do and become has been planned and written before you were formed into your mother’s womb. You must think, desire, expect and decide through what God has revealed to you as your purpose.

In the society out there, you have a choice of sticking to what God has revealed to you. You have the choice to hold on to what you have learnt and understood from your self discovery in Christ.

‘Looking 4 Myself’ is the quest for LOVE.

The only way to find love is when you are being able to find yourself. The possibility of you getting stock in an abusive relationship becomes easier when you have not found yourself. You can be used and dumped if you have don’t find yourself. There is no way you will really understand your true worth and values if you don’t find yourself. There is no way for you to understand God’s martial will for your life if you don’t find yourself. You totally become a victim when you don’t have a clue about who God has created you to become. If you don’t know who you were created to be, any thing goes and any where looks like your destination. The devil can deal with you if you don’t find yourself in Christ. You will not be able to enjoy the Covenant and promises of God to the full capacity if you don’t find yourself.

God is love and according to Genesis 1:26 – 28; God created the male and the female in His own image and his likeness. God created man-kind or humans in the same capacity and quality of himself. If God is love and he created you in the capacity and quality himself then, love is you. Love is the personality God created you to become; this is your life style.

‘Looking 4 Myself’ is the quest for LIFE.

The only way to find life and experience life to the full measure is when you find yourself. It becomes impossible for you to find a life partner when you don’t even have a life of your own. Your talent will lack a sense of direction and inspiration if you don’t find yourself. You were created to function in a specific way. Your talents and creativity were designed by God to manifest in a specific pattern. God has placed a pattern upon your talents, creativity, emotions and attitude. There is a specific way God has designed you think. There is a specific pattern God has designed your emotions to love (The Five Love Languages). There is a specific pattern God has designed your emotions to receive love (The Five Love Languages). There is a specific pattern God has design your attitude to function (Human Temperaments).


Jesus is not just the way; he is the truth and the LIFE. John 10:10b says - I came that I may give you life and life abundantly. Your talent, creativity, attitude, mind-set and emotions needs life to function according to what God has designed for your life (before you were formed in your mother’s womb).

To be continued.
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