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Looking 4 Myself - Part 4

THINGS YOU ARE NOT…

FEARS: You are not what your fears tell you.

WORRIES: You are not that person your worries have projected you to be.

DOUBTS: You are not that person your worries are convincing you to accept.

CONFUSION:  You are not that person your confused state has defined you to be.

IGNORANCE: You are more than what your ignorance has made you to settle for; you worth more for Jesus is your worth!

PAST: You are not your past; the blood of Jesus has declared you not guilty.

WEAKNESS: You are not a prostitute. You are not a smoker. You are not a liar. You are not foolish. You are not useless. You are not a failure…etc. All of these are the mal-functioning of the ordinal you; don’t buy that lies from the devil. I know you are struggling with you but the truth is, that is not you. I know you are addicted to it but the truth is; that is not you. You are what the bible says you are. You are what God has ordained you to become before he formed you into your mother’s womb.

EXPERIENCE: You are not your experiences. I don’t care what you have been through and how many times you have failed. I don’t care about how many times you have been rejected. I don’t care about who has given up on you. I don’t care if no lady has ever accepted your proposal. I don’t care if there is no man to put a ring on that finger. I don’t care what your experience might be but I am here to tell you; you are the reality of God’s plan for your life. There is more to your life than what you have experienced and your experience is not your limitation. You can be better and wiser than what your experience have to testify. You are not limited by your upbringing and the best you parents have become is not the best you will ever be. You deserve more and you were created for more. The best version of your self is yet to be revealed. Do you know how I discovered this? I read God’s will – Jeremiah 29:11.


You were created for honour and pride of God manifested here on earth. You were created by God to be a solution and not a burden to people. God created you to ease the pains of people and not you adding to their pain.

To be continued.
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