2 Timothy 1:8-9 Hosea 4:6 You are welcome to this phase of discovery.  The first thing I want you to learn in this post is for you to give attention to what the scripture has to say about divine purpose. According to 2 Timothy 1:8-9; you will realize that the life God has created us to live is not a life unto our selves. This is not a life that is meant to feed the pride of life, lust of the flesh, and lust of the eyes. This life you have being created to live is not meant to fit into the expectation of the society neither is it meant to fit into the suggestion of your environmental influences. You must come a point of realization where you discover the uniqueness that is attached to your life by God Himself. You are not a misfit in this life. You are not a product of mistake and even if your parents didn’t plan for your conception, God deliberately created you for a single and specific purpose. What is Divine Purpose? Divine Purpose is all about a specific reason o

John 4:34 According to the scripture above, Jesus said, His meat (priority) is to do the work of His Father and to finish it.  What is your priority? What comes first in your life? What’s your major concern in life? The answer to these questions resides in what you consider as your MEAT (priority). Your priorities are things you can’t do without. Your priorities are things that define your necessity in life. Jesus is our standard and the template for living. To succeed in life, we must be able to pattern our lives according to the lifestyle of Jesus. Priority is your main (most important) concern or the most important thing according to your scale of values. Your priorities in life come from your values. Your priority (meat) must be to discover and do the work the Father has sent you.  There is a work you were created to do in this life. Being saved into salvation is a call into the Work of the Father which is actually the assignment that made your existence a necessity

Matthew 6:12 What is VALUE? VALUES are proves of your beliefs. As a believer, you must come to understand that you must define your VALUES. When you don’t define your VALUES accurately according to the Word of God, you will have issues with your priority. As a believer, your VALUES must be built through the Word of our Lord Jesus Christ. When we talk about VALUES, you must first be able to understand your source. According to the scriptures (Matthew 6:12), where your treasure is, that is where your heart will reside. Your treasure in life is your beliefs. What have you accepted as the norm? What inspired you to accept it as your norms? This is the place where you must depend on the Holy Spirit and God’s word. Nothing should ever be your source of inspiration outside the Word of God.  When you see some one whose VALUE is not inspired by Gods Word – they will always have issues with their priority. If you have given your life to Jesus and if you believe Jesus Christ

*Proverbs 4:23 *Proverbs 23:7 *Galatians 6:3 - 5  WHAT IS ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP? Relationship abuse is a pattern of abusive used to maintain power and control over a former or current intimate partner. Abuse can be emotional, financial, sexual or physical and can include threats, isolation and intimidation. Abuse tends to escalate over time. When some one used abuse and violence against a partner, it is always part of a larger pattern of control.  HOW IS ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP? Abusive Relationship is a platform where both parties don’t have common values and priority. This is a place where balance does not exist. This is the aspect of relationship where one person lives his or her life for the other person. This is the relationship where one partner does not have a say in the relationship. This is the relationship where one tolerates insult and injustice just because he or she is afraid of being alone. This is a platform where one will settle for less not because they l

I will like to simplify it to the human relation aspect. Attraction exists between people through the similarity or opposite but these two platforms must operate through three channels. These three channels are what I call C.T.I; Character, Talent or Ideas. These channels are what enable us to function, and maintain progressively in the principle called attraction.  Attraction is the personality; similarity and opposite are the Natures while, C.T.I is the platform of how we function. Attraction reacts through similarity, and opposite while, C.T.I response through the similarity and opposite. In other words, for you to see the full beauty of attraction you must learn to see her through similarity, and opposite, and for C.T.I to function at her fullest capacity, she must operate through similarity, and opposite. It takes similarity, and opposite for likeness, love, marriage, ministry, or sex to execute their nature. This implies that you do not have it all, and you do not k

ATTRACTION is the personality, the influence and the nature that dwells on the inside of every man - kind. Every creature operates through her. The fuel attracts the fire/the fire attracts the fuel, the bone attracts the dog, the leaf attracts the goat, the trees attracts the monkey, the market attracts money, God’s blessing attracts men etc. even in ministry, God’s grace or the set of people God has called in the fivefold office attracts each other (similar or opposite). She is not an emotional issue alone; she is a lifestyle, she lives in you, and she is the principle all creatures obey. Attraction is a magnetic force that exists between humans that carries the same substance of interest, temperament and purpose in any field of life. Without the influence of attraction, communication will be absent. This lifestyle is the source behind friends and enemies. She is the personality that operates both in the good and bad platform. Attraction do not in any way leads people to s