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WHY MEN EXIST

Genesis 2:15 
And the LORD God took the man, and put him into the garden of Eden to dress it and to keep it.

The idea of the Garden of Eden was Gods idea and the idea of work was and is still the sole reason for created MAN. God was deliberate about the reason for the existence of man and its for dressing and keeping of the Garden.

What is the Garden?
The garden is any profession, person, vision or dream that the Lord has committed into the hands of any man. It is by design mans responsibility or duty to dress and keep whatsoever God has committed into his care.

What do it mean to DRESS AND KEEP?
To DRESS is to improve, repair, correct, adjust and beautify any thing or person committed into the care of the male. To KEEP is to protect, preserve, secure, and defend for the safety of any thing God has committed into the care of a male.

Who is a man? 
A man is the manifestation of a session or dimension of Gods image and likeness empowered to improve and protect whatsoever is Gods business or interest. He is the extension of God on earth for one single reason: SERVE!!!

A man is not just a logical or intellectual being alone. He is an emotional, spiritual, social, creative, financial and talented kind of being. He was specifically placed into the garden for the safety and smooth running of the garden.

The first thing God gave to Man was work. The true worth of a man is His ability to discover His work. Discover your work as a man is you discovering your self through the Help of the Holy Spirit. For the understanding of your self is in the work God has apportioned to you as a male. So, the greatest source of satisfaction of any man under the Grace of Jesus is WORK.

What is work? 
Work is that dream, passion, vision or project God has laid in your heart that holds the power to make you improve and protect any phase of life. Its not just about the Church but about the needs of humanity in the society. Discovering your self is when enlightens your eyes to understand the kind of lady you must not date or marry. Your work sets the pace for your decisions, expectation, desires and direction as a man

After work the second thing God gave to man is INSTRUCTIONS OF WHAT TO DO AND WHAT TO AVOID. The strength and authority of any male is in the clarity and understanding of Gods instructions to his life....per time, per season. A man with a constant instruction of God guiding his decisions and direction in life will suffer frustration. In other words, a female is set to help the man to be committed to the WORK AND INSTRUCTION GOD GAVE THE MAN. Never you try to help a man when you have not yet understood his work and the instructions God has given to Him. His rise and fall depends on this.

As a man, what has God told you about your self lately? What has God told you personally about himself? What has God told you about your martial destiny recently? What is the instruction of God to you that is setting the pace for every of your decision, desires and direction in life? Are you with or without a guiding instructions of God? Your authority and right as a man is in the understanding of Gods  instructions to you. Even if you can hear Gods voice, the scriptures are there for you to read. The written word of God is also the spoken word of God. The spoken word of God must also align with the written word of God.

As a man, the first three things that can destroy you if you lack the discovery of your self are LADIES, MONEY AND SEX. These will become your downfall the moment you begin to use the lack or availability of these to determine your worth or failure in life. Your true worth is in the Work God has committed into your hands and in Gods instruction to you. If you walk in this truth, you will never be frustrated.

Point of Correction: the woman IS NOT THE BONE FROM YOUR BONE. SHE IS THE BONE OF YOUR BONE. In other words, she is of the same material, quality, and class of every thing God has blessed you in as man. The man is the extension of God and the woman is the extension of the man. If you see any woman as foolish, just know that you are foolish too. Whatsoever is your perspective about ladies is the true reflection of your self. And this mean, you will never enjoy the aspect of a lady you have refused to believe exist.

How is men designed to Function?
God has wired men to function through the following direction which are: LEADER, PROTECTOR, PROVIDER, TEACHER, CULTIVATOR, AND INSTRUCTOR. 

As a leader, you should be able to lead every thing around you into the presence of God and into the understanding of Gods interest over any issue.

As a protector, you should be able to protect everything around you from the yoke of ignorance, deception, manipulation and domineering factors of life. Some times, you even have to protect people from their own display of pride and immaturity. You have to protect every thing around you from the interest of the kingdom of darkness.

As a man, you should be able to provide FOR THE NECESSITY OF LIFE to every thing God has committed into your hands. Its your duty to provide the right knowledge, right understanding, right environment for learning, discovery and preparation. You should be able to provide physically, socially, intellectually, spiritually,  emotionally, financially, talent and creatively

As a man, you should be able to teach people God has committed into your hands, all that God has taught you. You should be able to teach them how to get into the presence of God and abide. You should be able to teach them to depend on the Holy Spirit and Gods word. You should be able to teach them the knowledge and understanding OF THE WORK AND INSTRUCTIONS God has committed into your hands. You should be able to teach them the truth version of the lies they have held onto.

As a man, you should be able to stop judging people for the errors and faults you see but cultivate the best in every one God has committed into your hands. For every faults and errors you see in every system or people, God is depending you to cultivate the best from those walking in their faults and errors. You should be able to cultivate potentials and capacity in people physically, spiritually, socially, emotionally, intellectually, talent and creatively. This is how you are wired as a man!!!!

As a Man, you should be able to instruct the people God has given to you to stay committed to the instructions God has given to you. You shouldn't allow people God has committed into your hands to do whatsoever they like, think any how, settle for any thing and make decisions that are not in agreement with Gods instruction and interest.

As a man, you must also submit your self to the Holy Spirit, your mentor, your pastor, your parents, father in the Lord and Gods Word to LEAD you into Gods presence and plan for your life. You must submit your self to these same set of people to PROTECT YOU, PROVIDE FOR YOU, CULTIVATE YOU AND INSTRUCT YOU according to the interest of God and His Plans for your life. UNTIL SOME ONE DRESS AND KEEP YOU, YOU WILL NEVER LEARN OR UNDERSTAND HOW TO DRESS AND KEEP YOU. IF YOU DONT ALLOW THE HOLY SPIRIT TO DRESS AND KEEP YOU, YOU WONT BE ABLE TO RECOGNIZE THOSE THAT ARE TRUE AND THOSE TRYING TO TAKE ADVANTAGE OF YOU.

You must learn to dress and keep your self through the knowledge of Gods word and plan for your life. Don't abandon your self and focus on dressing and keeping other people. Become a reflection of what you are about dressing and keeping people into. Being a REAL MAN is enforcing discipline yet not domineering. Its in rebuking yet rejecting no body. Its in correcting yet not condemning any one. Its in accepting people but insisting their grow and improve daily. Its a balance affair.

READ THIS CAREFULLY, any kind of wife you have in your head as a life partner will never appear to you as already made. God will give her to you as a raw material. Its your duty to cultivate her, lead her, instruct her, protect her, and teach her till she become what God instructed you about your spouse. Any attitude you don't infuse into any lady, you won't enjoy it from here.

I am very sure some men are shocked and some are confused because most of the role model or fathers or examples we have where not exposed to this truth. Drop your experience and stop the intention of getting married and managing your home the way your father did. BE A BETTER VERSION OF YOUR FATHER IRRESPECTIVE THE LEVEL OF HIS SUCCESS OR FAILURE. BECOME THE CORRECTION OF HIS MISTAKES AND ALSO RESPECT FATHERHOOD. Irrespective of the fault of any male gender that's ahead of you in any way...NEVER JUDGE OR CONDEMN...observe and learn for life are in phases.

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