People have always seek for who to blame when it comes to hurts, pains and regrets. This have always become the safe landing for all hurting and heart broken lovers. This is another kind misconception of what a healthy relationship should be.
Men are not at fault.
Ladies are not at fault.
Dating is not difficult.
Relationship is not complex.
YOUR IGNORANCE AND GREED IS THE MAJOR PROBLEM.
For any relationship that ever failed is only because of what you should have done that you didn't know how to do or for the things you shouldn't have done that you do. These two reasons are the fact of pains and struggles in relationship.
Love still exist and you can't use your own experience that was sponsored by your own limited knowledge, and exposure to judge and determine the existence of some thing that is equal to the existence of God Himself.
Stop depending on your experience and chase the knowledge of relationship you have not yet gain. Seek to know what you haven't known and understand what you haven't understood yet. Daily learn how to love and be loved....in these you will cultivate a healthy life and healthy relationship.
Less I forget....greed is the greatest sponsor of abuse in relationship. If you are in relationship only for what to get from this person...you will never experience healthy relationship. Relationship is a place where two people come together to share with each other...whatsoever they have together. Its about being useful to each other. It's about benefiting from each other. Its about being a blessing to each other. Its about meeting each others name. In other words, LOVE IS FIRST OF ALL....A GIVING MENTALITY AND SECONDLY A RECEIVING MENTALITY. Its still the law of seed time and harvest time. Don't expect to reap from a relationship when you haven't sow any thing.
Love is not at fault....your ignorance is at fault....your greed is at fault and finally your motive is at fault. Love is sweet, beautiful and of course YES.... True love still exist and it dwells within you....if you have made Jesus the Lord of your life.
I have discovered the greatest challenge of human is not finding love but its in expressing the love that's already within them. You have all it takes to cultivate a healthy life and relationship. It's all within you but many people are busy wishing to be like others whereas, all you need to survive in a healthy relationship is being yourself.
The ability to love and be loved is within you already. The Christ in you is the love manifested and the Holy Spirit dwelling in you is the capacity to love and be loved!!!
LOVE IS NOT AT FAULT...
We humans are always at fault.
REHE celebrates you.
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