Skip to main content

WHO IS IN CHARGE...MAN OR LADY?

In every relationship, THE MAN SHOULD BE IN CHARGE IN THE PLACE OF DECISION MAKING AND TAKING RESPONSIBILITY.

Sir! If you were the one that asked her out for a relationship and she accepted you....why is she making all the rules and setting the pace of what will or not work in this relationship? I know it appears like love but it is not.

As a lady, if you are comfortable that this man is allowing you to have your way simply because he doesn't want your trouble in this relationship......then you are a disgrace to the sisterhood.

My sister, if you can't trust this man's wisdom to make decisions you will submit to in the relationship, don't accept him.

If you cant align your plans UNDER the plan of this man, don't accept him. If you won't feel secured for him to dictate what you should and shouldn't do in the relationship, don't accept him.

Sir, you want to chat with her but she is not in the mood but when she is in need, she chats you up....STOP THAT.

WHO IS REALLY IN CHARGE.....YOU OR THIS LADY?

How come you tolerate things that are against your moral values and believe just for her not to get angry? Why allow this lady to do as she pleases without calling her to order?

Rise up and become the MAN God has created you to be. Stop following her rules. Stop doing every thing on her terms. If she is not ready to stay in the relationship on your terms, BREAK UP WITH HER. Stop being pitted. Stop suffering in silence. Stop pretending you are okay with all her attitudes and drama. You love communication yet, she is not doesn't communicate. All that makes you happy as a man is every thing she is not willing to offer you yet...you are suffering in silent. She complains at every best effort you make in the relationship yet she doesn't even make effort in the relationship. Why must every thing you do and not do be surrounded on her....? WHAT ABOUT YOU...THE MAN? What about the very reason you asked her out? What about what truly makes you happy? Stand up and be in charge. Treat her the way Jesus treats you. Don't allow her to treat you less the way Jesus treats you. Just as Jesus is in Charge of the Church....be in charge of your relationship sir!!!!

HOPE EXPRESSION celebrates you.

Comments

Post a Comment

Popular posts from this blog

Be Single But Don't Be Stupid

Relationship is a tool and platform for maintaining, sustaining and deploying of dreams or purpose. Relationship is a tool and platform for learning, discovering and development your capacity, potentials, ideas and dream. Relationship is a tool and platform for participating in adding value to others and in receiving value from others. Being single is not a curse but an opportunity to discover your self and explore your dream. Being single is a season. There is a time to be single and there is a time for dating. Don't pursue your dream to the extreme and abandon the need for dating. Dating is a necessity and a pleasure. If you can't cultivate a healthy life as a single, dating will frustrate you. Be single and be productive. Be single and be result oriented. Be single and develop your capacity. Be single and understand your direction in life. Be single and Specific about your reason for existence. You are unique and you must dare to be different. Learn to stay where God has ord...
1 comment
Read more

Un-masking the past - Part 2

Why do you need to unmask the past? If you are not ready to unmask the past, you will remain a slave to your past. You won't be able to identify why you failed the way you fail. You won't be able to maintain the pattern of success you had in the past. It because difficult for you to trace the source of any present issue, conflict, and negative experience. Unmasking the past is the best gift you can ever offer yourself. You need to unmask the past, understanding your past is what dictates what to stop doing, what to start doing, what to change, and what to improve. It rescues you from blaming everybody while making excuses for your faults. Unmasking the past helps you not to repeat the same mistakes all over again. It reveals how you failed in other to know how to sit up in the present. It reveals how you succeeded and how to maintain that success. Nobody in life, including me, has a smooth past. During a counseling session, a lady once told me. I have a past that I will never t...
Post a Comment
Read more

Love Transaction - Part 1

Relationship is and will always be a transaction of values, priority and needs. Your success is being able to sell what you enjoy selling and what this person will enjoy buying from you. What are you selling is all about, your input or contribution to your present friendship, relationship or courtship. What's the quality of your attitude, mindset and manner of approach, you are investing in the lives of the people around you? Will you enjoy this lady or man treating you the same way you are treating him or her? Will you enjoy this person talking to you in the same manner you are talking to him or her? Its not about how committed you are this person, but as a man, is this what you promised her while asking her out? As a lady, is this what you promised him before you accepted him? Ever since you stepped into this persons life, has things gone worst or best? In what way have you being helping and supportive to this person? Do your jokes respect this person or it abuses him...
2 comments
Read more