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WHO IS IN CHARGE...MAN OR LADY?

In every relationship, THE MAN SHOULD BE IN CHARGE IN THE PLACE OF DECISION MAKING AND TAKING RESPONSIBILITY.

Sir! If you were the one that asked her out for a relationship and she accepted you....why is she making all the rules and setting the pace of what will or not work in this relationship? I know it appears like love but it is not.

As a lady, if you are comfortable that this man is allowing you to have your way simply because he doesn't want your trouble in this relationship......then you are a disgrace to the sisterhood.

My sister, if you can't trust this man's wisdom to make decisions you will submit to in the relationship, don't accept him.

If you cant align your plans UNDER the plan of this man, don't accept him. If you won't feel secured for him to dictate what you should and shouldn't do in the relationship, don't accept him.

Sir, you want to chat with her but she is not in the mood but when she is in need, she chats you up....STOP THAT.

WHO IS REALLY IN CHARGE.....YOU OR THIS LADY?

How come you tolerate things that are against your moral values and believe just for her not to get angry? Why allow this lady to do as she pleases without calling her to order?

Rise up and become the MAN God has created you to be. Stop following her rules. Stop doing every thing on her terms. If she is not ready to stay in the relationship on your terms, BREAK UP WITH HER. Stop being pitted. Stop suffering in silence. Stop pretending you are okay with all her attitudes and drama. You love communication yet, she is not doesn't communicate. All that makes you happy as a man is every thing she is not willing to offer you yet...you are suffering in silent. She complains at every best effort you make in the relationship yet she doesn't even make effort in the relationship. Why must every thing you do and not do be surrounded on her....? WHAT ABOUT YOU...THE MAN? What about the very reason you asked her out? What about what truly makes you happy? Stand up and be in charge. Treat her the way Jesus treats you. Don't allow her to treat you less the way Jesus treats you. Just as Jesus is in Charge of the Church....be in charge of your relationship sir!!!!

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