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Don't Test, Observe!!!

We all have fears, worries and doubt. No body wants to have a bad marriage. This is true but the word of God do not in any way permits us to play and toil with peoples feelings just to clear our own fears, worries and doubt's...

Its okay to acknowledge your fears, worries and doubt...but its not okay to test any body for it. The result won't be Godly because any thing you didn't start with God won't yield Gods result.

I hereby present a solution to you who has some fears, worries and doubt about this lady or guy you feel attracted.

OBSERVE... If you have fears about a guy or lady being rude to you in future or in marriage, all you have to do is observe how he or she relates with the people around him or her ...his or her siblings, his or her parents, his or her co worker, his or her street mate.... You will be able to find your answers.

The way people treat other people when they are excited, afraid, angry, worried, offended, happy... Etc is a pointer to reveal to you how you will be treated by them.

If you are afraid of this guy or lady lying to you? Don't stress your self to test him or her. Just observe how he or she relate with the people around you. Has he or has she ever lied to some body while talking on the phone in your presence? Has he or she lied to any body for any reason in your presence? Get ready my sister and brother....you will be the next person he or she will lie to. Don't fall for another lie that he or she can lie to every body but will always be truthful to you.

You don't have to hurt peoples feelings or toil with their emotions to feel secure... Don't rush...take your time to observe. Don't test...don't consciously put people under pressure or tension to see their patience or maturity....Observe them in the way they function when under pressure or tension and you will understand them.

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