We have youths who can speak DANGEROUS tongues of the Spirit but act like chicken when it comes to romance. Romance is not a sin.....your motive is what can corrupt it to be sin. Romance is a display of affection to some one with the aim to make the person feel secure and special. Romance is in three dimension; - Touch - Words - Stirring or looking. Romantic touch is in two dimension: - Sexual touches. These are romantic touch that stirs up sexual urges. Touches around the sensitive part of the body... Tight hugs...etc - Non sexual touches These are touches like petting on the shoulders, back, toes, palm, hair on the head.... I call them innocent touch just for the sake of petting some one. No plans or motive for kissing or sex. Shoulder to chest hugs....pecks on the forehead...pecks at the back of the hand... Etc The second dimension of romance is words....it can be written or spoken words. Words that reminds this person how special you are to them....it can b

We all have fears, worries and doubt. No body wants to have a bad marriage. This is true but the word of God do not in any way permits us to play and toil with peoples feelings just to clear our own fears, worries and doubt's... Its okay to acknowledge your fears, worries and doubt...but its not okay to test any body for it. The result won't be Godly because any thing you didn't start with God won't yield Gods result. I hereby present a solution to you who has some fears, worries and doubt about this lady or guy you feel attracted. OBSERVE... If you have fears about a guy or lady being rude to you in future or in marriage, all you have to do is observe how he or she relates with the people around him or her ...his or her siblings, his or her parents, his or her co worker, his or her street mate.... You will be able to find your answers. The way people treat other people when they are excited, afraid, angry, worried, offended, happy... Etc is a pointer to

The Anointing you have received through Christ.....what are you using it for? The Grace of our Lord Jesus Christ at work in you.....what are you using it for? The Holy Spirit dwelling in you, what are you using it for? You are the light of the world....whose problem are you solving? You are the salt of the earth....who are you currently a blessing to? God has blessed you with destiny helpers....who knows you as their destiny helper? It's time to be useful to other people with every thing God has blessed you and invested in you. HOPE EXPRESSION celebrates you. #Prince_Victor_ Matthew

In every relationship, THE MAN SHOULD BE IN CHARGE IN THE PLACE OF DECISION MAKING AND TAKING RESPONSIBILITY. Sir! If you were the one that asked her out for a relationship and she accepted you....why is she making all the rules and setting the pace of what will or not work in this relationship? I know it appears like love but it is not. As a lady, if you are comfortable that this man is allowing you to have your way simply because he doesn't want your trouble in this relationship......then you are a disgrace to the sisterhood. My sister, if you can't trust this man's wisdom to make decisions you will submit to in the relationship, don't accept him. If you cant align your plans UNDER the plan of this man, don't accept him. If you won't feel secured for him to dictate what you should and shouldn't do in the relationship, don't accept him. Sir, you want to chat with her but she is not in the mood but when she is in need, she chats you up..