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Lead Your Self

Every gender is a leader and every leader both gender. 

the first demand of leadership is not in you leading people. It is in your ability to lead your self. 

This has nothing to do with title or position but it's all about your daily lifestyle. 

The way you think and how you think is an example, some one some where is following.  

Your attitude and manner of approach is an example some one some where is following.  

Your life is a role model to some one, some where. Some of this people don't even talk to you or even close to you but you are their role model.

At this point, I want you to know that you are a leader irrespective of your gender. But let me ask you a question, *how are you living your life?*  

What's the quality of the kind of life you are living? 

How do you lead yourself in the way you spend your money? 

How do you lead yourself when you are angry? 

How do you lead your self when you offend some one? 

How do you lead yourself in the midst of your own fears, worries and doubts? 

How you can lead yourself will determine your influence on other people. 

You are the light of this generation.  

For you to become this person God has created you to be, you must be deliberate about how you are living your life. 

Make sure you pattern your life, decision, desire and attitude according to the lifestyle of Jesus. 

Dare to become the leader God has created you to be.     

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