I want to share with you this truth. Faith is the substance of what reveal God's plan to us as individuals.  Faith is in phases.  The first level of faith of the revelational faith. This is when the word of God you study begin to show you the **knowledge* Of the plan of God for your life.   The life of faith is the word of God and the first duty of the word of God is to reveal God's plan to you. Giving you a knowledge you need base on God's plan. This is the revelational Faith.   It is this revelational faith that will dictate and direct you what God has made available for you. In this knowledge is what enable you to know what to pray for and how to pray. In this knowledge is the strength of what to expect and how to expect and desire.  You can only please the Lord with Faith (knowledge of God's plan). That is, doing what God want and in how he wants it. Faith is not just mere expectation, it is an expectation with the accurate knowledge of

*What you Should Talk about during Courtship*  Effective communication and studying your partner is the key you must have for you to know his/her love language I'll always be grateful for the life of Late Pst Bimbo Odukoya, her messages on courtship and marriage is still relevant and very much effective even till now Youths need to get that message on things to talk about before getting married, i believe we'll learn something form this. Have you talked about:  1. background  2. Do's and dont's  3. Weaknesses: e.g. snoring, eating habit e.t.c  4. Formal education: to what level?  5. Verbal skills: how does he/she talks  6. Expected roles of both individuals in the marriage: His roles as husband and father and her roles as wife mother of your children  7. Love and respect: to what extent does she respect or submit to you as her husband, and to what extent does he loves you as his wife. 8. Number of children  9. type of family planni

Every gender is a leader and every leader both gender.  the first demand of leadership is not in you leading people. It is in your ability to lead your self.  This has nothing to do with title or position but it's all about your daily lifestyle.  The way you think and how you think is an example, some one some where is following.   Your attitude and manner of approach is an example some one some where is following.   Your life is a role model to some one, some where. Some of this people don't even talk to you or even close to you but you are their role model. At this point, I want you to know that you are a leader irrespective of your gender. But let me ask you a question, *how are you living your life?*   What's the quality of the kind of life you are living?  How do you lead yourself in the way you spend your money?  How do you lead yourself when you are angry?  How do you lead your self when you offend some one?  How do you l

The truth is this: marriage will cost you. When you think of the cost of marriage, what comes to mind? According to recent statistics, the average couple today spends $26,444 on a wedding. That’s a lot of money, but it’s nothing compared to the REAL cost of marriage. Because like it or not, marriage will cost you MORE. It will cost you something great. It will cost you a price much larger than the money you spend on a ring or a wedding or a honeymoon: it will cost you yourself. I heard a married man on TV say (regarding whether or not he was going to stay in his own marriage), “I shouldn’t be with someone if I’m not happy…” and it made my stomach turn.  What an accurate reflection of the self-centered society we live in, everyone believing that their main goal in life is THEIR OWN personal happiness. What a small and shallow way to live. If you’re getting married with that as your main goal, to make yourself happy, you will be disappointed in a severe way. Mar