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PURPOSE OR LOVE..

Discovering your purpose is the first duty of any teenager and youth.....infact - teenage period is the best time to discover your purpose but in case...you missed it during your teenage period....don't engage in dating without the discovering of your purpose.

Why is purpose discovery difficult?

Discovering purpose is difficult these days because many youths and teenagers no longer study their bible in search of who God is....Gods plan and intention for their lives.

Even those that study their bible are either looking for Gods blessing or a passage to use in fighting their enemies.

You will never find your purpose in life until you discover who God is to you personally and Gods plan for your life.....this is only possible via studying your Bible to understand who God is to you personally.

Purpose is not a big word....your purpose can be discovered either by divine revelation or through the understanding of your inbuilt passion.

Passion is your inbuilt desire of what you enjoy doing just to see people smiles and become better than how you met them.

The funny part of Africa...is that people and evening situations around you have a way of making you feel this inbuilt passion in you is not possible....or makes you feel you don't have what it takes or you are not qualified to embrace and express that passion.

If God created you for a purpose...he has qualified you to embrace and express that purpose....your passion is valid...irrespective of whatsoever you lack right now.

I dare to write to you.....living without the consciousness of your purpose is you setting your self up for abuse.

Some people try to date and use it to find their purpose....this is wrong approach.

Discover your purpose then use the understanding of your purpose to dictate you is safe for you to date.

The first thing to consider before you engage into dating....is not if this person will accept or love. It is your full assurance that you embracing your purpose and manifesting your purpose will be safe...if you date this person.🙃🙃🙃

Its okay that you are counting six months or one year anniversary in dating this person.....its okay that you have been coping and survived all conflicts so far with this person.....but have your purpose survived? Have you survived in the growing within the clarity and understanding of your calling....while you have been dating this person?

If dating some one won't assure you the safety of your purpose...fulfilling it and growing in the clarity of your calling.....its not worth it!!!

The first thing that proves some one loves you is....when this person is ready to accept your purpose and ready to protect your purpose.

The first thing any one should love is your purpose....if they don't love why you are existing....then what's the use of their effort to love you?

The major question is ask is not....do you love me...?

The major question to ask is.....do you love my purpose?

The only reason for dating and marriage is to find, accommodate and work with some one who is ready to support you to express your purpose for existence.

Healthy relationship is where two lovers are helping each other to embrace and expression their individual purpose....separately and as teamwork.

In other words, who rejects or accepts you is not what should not be your top priority. The major issue is.....will my purpose be save? The safety of your purpose....both discovering it...growing in it....and expressing it....SHOULD BE YOUR TOP PRIORITY. That means....YOU CAN BE LOVED YET CHEATED when this persons love threatens the safety of your purpose.

HOPE EXPRESSION believes in you.

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