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Danger of Over Esteemation

As a believer of Christ, you must come to understand that whatsoever you become and whoever you are is meant to be a source of encouragement to other people.
Over esteeming your self or high self esteem is when you use your uniqueness to make other people feel worthless. When you use your gift, position or uniqueness to make other people feel they are not good enough or qualify to talk to you, sit with you or even be identified with you in public.
You think if this person does not have expensive phone, designer wears and money in their bank account....they are not your class. Kai!! The same you that God helped from scarcity and poverty have forgotten so soon? 
There is nothing healthy about this kind of attitude and it will make you to lack helpers in the days of your troubles. Stop over esteemating your self. All you have become in life....some one, some where helped. Whatsoever position you are occupying...some one gave you that opportunity. Why are you acting like you are self made?
You still have some one helping you yet you think some people don't deserve your help. You think they are not your class in the aspect of your helping them.
Who has bewitched you? Who has deceived you? Drop your pride and learn the attitude of respecting other people. You are nothing but a dust. When you were born, some one bathed you...and when you die...some one will bath you.
If not for the help of some people that even tolerated your immaturity back then, will you have become this person you are now? 
People treated and trained you with humility yet you act with so much pride to other people....why?🤷🏻‍♂️🤷🏻‍♂️🤷🏻‍♂️
This same you that God helped is the one...despising this lady or man...thinking like they are inferior to you. Stop being ungrateful and respect every one around you.
IF YOU THINK YOU DESERVE TO BE RESPECTED THEN EVERY BODY DESERVE RESPECT.

HOPE EXPRESSION believes in you.

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